"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cablecow15

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Well lets see, around three weeks ago i went to my first night club on ladies night. I went with one friend from work and he had no balls , nor did I and we pretty much just sat around staring all night.

the second time I went, I went with another friend from work , this one had been drinking liquid courage all day , and pretty much drug me out there and got me over that hump , I danced with two good looking girls that night

the third time i went it wasn't on ladies night , and i only got one dance , it was dead this night

fourth time i went danced with three good looking girls , and i got a few numbers as well

then last night i go out , its starts real slow , i start to get a bad attitude , when i run into a friend and we run around a bit and i end up dancing with three good looking girls and two of them i get their numbers , and I kissed them after as well

Ive noticed Ive had a steady stream of increased success

I cant wait to see what i can pull off in the coming weeks

and yes i always go with fun in mind , so im hoping ill avoid disappointment if things get slow one week
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cablecow15

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One very interesting thing i noticed , and this could be a coincidence , but two girls whose numbers i got , they both seemed to dissapear after I got their numbers , it was odd , to me , it almost seemed as if they were holding on until a guy like me got their number , then they were ready to get the hell outta there lol
 

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cablecow15 said:
One very interesting thing i noticed , and this could be a coincidence , but two girls whose numbers i got , they both seemed to dissapear after I got their numbers , it was odd , to me , it almost seemed as if they were holding on until a guy like me got their number , then they were ready to get the hell outta there lol
That's a GOOD sign. It means they like you. If they didn't, they'd stay to meet more guys. If a chick leaves after giving me her number, that's a plus. A number close is the end of that interaction, generally, anyway.

Congrats on the increasing success. You have LOTS of potential in this game.
 

cablecow15

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Mike32ct said:
That's a GOOD sign. It means they like you. If they didn't, they'd stay to meet more guys. If a chick leaves after giving me her number, that's a plus. A number close is the end of that interaction, generally, anyway.

Congrats on the increasing success. You have LOTS of potential in this game.
thank man I appreciate it , its like a weight has lifted off my shoulders now that ive finally gotten some results .

A little follow up

the first girl whose number i got hasent texted back , i later that day called her incase she was one of those that cant get texts , and heard her voicemail verifying that i did get her number right, ill try once more later in the week then if i still get nothing ill forget about it

the second girl i texted her this morning , asked her if she was free to morrow she said she was going to a concert , i asked who , i knew the band and actually like them , so i replyed saying , "wow you got a lot cooler in my book, wanna meet up later this week and tell me how the show is ?"

she replied with "ok sounds good! ;)"

she seems pretty interested

and i also have another date lined up for sometime this weekend , I haven't set actual times or days yet because i wanna keep my options open

I know i shouldn't try to conform to their schedule , but its hard to sometimes
 
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