"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cablecow15

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Well lets see, around three weeks ago i went to my first night club on ladies night. I went with one friend from work and he had no balls , nor did I and we pretty much just sat around staring all night.

the second time I went, I went with another friend from work , this one had been drinking liquid courage all day , and pretty much drug me out there and got me over that hump , I danced with two good looking girls that night

the third time i went it wasn't on ladies night , and i only got one dance , it was dead this night

fourth time i went danced with three good looking girls , and i got a few numbers as well

then last night i go out , its starts real slow , i start to get a bad attitude , when i run into a friend and we run around a bit and i end up dancing with three good looking girls and two of them i get their numbers , and I kissed them after as well

Ive noticed Ive had a steady stream of increased success

I cant wait to see what i can pull off in the coming weeks

and yes i always go with fun in mind , so im hoping ill avoid disappointment if things get slow one week
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cablecow15

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One very interesting thing i noticed , and this could be a coincidence , but two girls whose numbers i got , they both seemed to dissapear after I got their numbers , it was odd , to me , it almost seemed as if they were holding on until a guy like me got their number , then they were ready to get the hell outta there lol
 

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cablecow15 said:
One very interesting thing i noticed , and this could be a coincidence , but two girls whose numbers i got , they both seemed to dissapear after I got their numbers , it was odd , to me , it almost seemed as if they were holding on until a guy like me got their number , then they were ready to get the hell outta there lol
That's a GOOD sign. It means they like you. If they didn't, they'd stay to meet more guys. If a chick leaves after giving me her number, that's a plus. A number close is the end of that interaction, generally, anyway.

Congrats on the increasing success. You have LOTS of potential in this game.
 

cablecow15

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Mike32ct said:
That's a GOOD sign. It means they like you. If they didn't, they'd stay to meet more guys. If a chick leaves after giving me her number, that's a plus. A number close is the end of that interaction, generally, anyway.

Congrats on the increasing success. You have LOTS of potential in this game.
thank man I appreciate it , its like a weight has lifted off my shoulders now that ive finally gotten some results .

A little follow up

the first girl whose number i got hasent texted back , i later that day called her incase she was one of those that cant get texts , and heard her voicemail verifying that i did get her number right, ill try once more later in the week then if i still get nothing ill forget about it

the second girl i texted her this morning , asked her if she was free to morrow she said she was going to a concert , i asked who , i knew the band and actually like them , so i replyed saying , "wow you got a lot cooler in my book, wanna meet up later this week and tell me how the show is ?"

she replied with "ok sounds good! ;)"

she seems pretty interested

and i also have another date lined up for sometime this weekend , I haven't set actual times or days yet because i wanna keep my options open

I know i shouldn't try to conform to their schedule , but its hard to sometimes
 
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