"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm not 25, but the main board is useless

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Simple as that
So I believe I will post here, but only if I have questions. I'm only 19, but I believe I've surpassed the maturity level that currently rules the main board. I'd just like to learn something if I can and hear experiences from others. Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay...we'll sneak you in, but you gotta wear these dark shades, sit at the corner table and look older. :cool:

Just kidding! :D
 
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lol @ watertiger

Ridingthelightning: Even though there is a lot of crap on the mainboard, i still see some good advice being given there. Even though you may have to skim through the immature stuff, there will be some good answers for ya.

Anyhow.. welcome to The Mature Man section..

PS Watertiger: That stick-on moustache is on your chin by now.. Fix it so you don't get kicked out! :p
 
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Originally posted by Caveman

PS Watertiger: That stick-on moustache is on your chin by now.. Fix it so you don't get kicked out! :p
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I don't wear a moustache! It hides my high gloss "Spicy Peach" lipstick! Oh DAMN! You made me chip a nail replying to your post!:p :p :p
 
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LOL
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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welcome to the board dude !
glad you posted. are you here to ask for advice or just announcing your whereabouts?

damn, my nails look bad !
 
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I'm here for advice, learn, and possibly meet some good folks. I'm not a master Don, and don't want to be, just here to seek out some improvement tips if I want or think I need them.
 
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I know what you mean, I'm new to this mature board (i just turned 25 not that long ago) and it is something i have noticed since i first started coming to this site almost a few years ago. Anyway, welcome aboard.
 
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Haha, this message board is the equivalent to the Adult Contemporary genre of music. You know, we still like older artists who are still producing great music that gets lost among all the lesser contemporary music today.

Yeah, there are few posts in the main message board, but you'll get more quality here, from the people who have lived through most of the issues already.
 
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What I like about this board is that it doesn't deal with chasing much, at least not what I've read. I've never been much of a chaser, and while that got me nowhere with certain girls, it has gotten me a few worthwhile relationships that weren't random.
Chasing is dumb to me, I don't feel like waisting the time. Its always been better for me cause I find the best girls ask me what I'm all about when I don't try to impress anyone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Although you may occaisionally find a good post in the main forum, this section is better.

There have been some really idiotic posts there recently. Here are a couple of examples of the types of threads you will have to wade through over there:

1) One moron suggested farting when speaking to women.
2) Another clown posted beastiality links to prove his point about women liking sex.
 
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