"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Im no longer being nice with her parents

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frivolousz21

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Ive sat and had to keep my mouth shut for long enuf..now im sick of it.

theyre daugher is 21 yrs old...they found out she was pregnant in novemeber..said they hated me and blamed me...and banned me from there house...for her sake I was nice, never saying a word.

trying to be the bigger man.

now its new yrs eve...her and her twin sister are having a huge party at there house..obviously I cant go...so now she has to leave at 11 pm to be with me..because her old man dad is fycking insecure coward.

being a man and being demanding repsect..but having to throw baby fits and try controlling your family is another.

now I dont care...they can go **** themselves...they are driving there daughter away..i dont even have to try..infact I dont give a shyut..she loves me..im not worried about them taking her..but there fears are beyond rediculous.

so my Fiance is growing a pair..and when people ask she will say her dad wont let me there..then she has to leave at 11 am.
I hope he feels 2 inches tall....

wat a selfish fycker..

I still wont say anything..all I know is this makes me resent my fiance some...I guess thats natural but I have to let that go. and I have to remember she has always been under there control till now.

how sad....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cut the old man some slack.

His daughter who lives at home with him under his roof just got pregnant and all of the sudden she tells him she is getting married to the man who impregnated her. This is a very unorthodox way of getting married. Any parent will be p1ssed off no matter how old is the daughter.

The last thing you want is to create a wedge between your girl and her parents and the rest of her family. This unexpected pregnancy has caught them off guard and they want to know their daughter will be taken care of. In their eyes you already proved yourself irresponsible by having a kid before getting married.

Step up to the plate and be the best husband and father you can be and in a few years your actions will speak louder then your words. That is all you can do at this point.

DjDamage
 
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Originally posted by DJDamage
Cut the old man some slack.

His daughter who lives at home with him under his roof just got pregnant and all of the sudden she tells him she is getting married to the man who impregnated her. This is a very unorthodox way of getting married. Any parent will be p1ssed off no matter how old is the daughter.

The last thing you want is to create a wedge between your girl and her parents and the rest of her family. This unexpected pregnancy has caught them off guard and they want to know their daughter will be taken care of. In their eyes you already proved yourself irresponsible by having a kid before getting married.

Step up to the plate and be the best husband and father you can be and in a few years your actions will speak louder then your words. That is all you can do at this point.

DjDamage
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well said.
 
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