I'm new to this town and need advice please

[Dhoulmagus]

I moved 1000 miles away from my state to take my first job out of college. I stick out like sore thumb because of my accent and I am African American. There's Africans here, but they don't look or act like me lol. I went to bars with my boss last night, but he is married so I know this won't be an every weekend type of ordeal. Tinder isn't that great here, but I'm still using it. Anyways, were any of yall in my situation and what do?

 

[Asmodeus]

A foreign country? American men are very highly valued by women in foreign countries... At least that has been my experience.
Or is this in some state? Where is this? Need more information to provide any possible advice...
The best advice is to try to find social circles to join in and to ever expand those social circles. Just meet people there, tell them you are new and that you are looking to meet new people and make new friends, should work. You will keep expanding your circles, become more familiar with the area, know hot spots and places to go, even find friends to join you.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I live in the North Dakota. I noted that I'm the only african american in the town aside from Somalis lol.

 

[El Payaso]

North Dakota is way out there. My only suggestion is to live near a big college. It's the only guarantee for a constant stream of women. If you live in the suburbs, you'll have a much tougher time.