"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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white cloud 8

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Hi,

I am currently in my first relationship, I have been dating this girl for a little over two months (almost three). Could people who are (or had) in a relationship, tell me if it is worth it for me to buy some books on relationships for advice? Would it be useful knowledge? Could people recommend some books to me, please?


-thanks :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dr. Dennis Nedder "being a man in a woman's world". Doc Love's "The System". They both talk about what will fly and what won't in a relationship.
 
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you don't really need a book - just trust your feelings. there's no right or wrong in a relationship. i mean, look, that girl likes you the way YOU are, otherwise she wouldn't fancy you, right?
don't trust any books, because you might get dependent on them and that looks very insecure.
just have fun with your new g/f (congratulations!) and enjoy this new part of your life! :flowers:
 
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Do the same sh*t that got you there in the first place. You don't change sucess, you just add to it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HollowHorizon said:
So suave is more than all u need :)
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I think Sosuave is quite detrimental to relationships.

My advice: be fun, communicate, continue self-improvement, give her AMAZING sex, and always be the prize.

Do this and you will always mantain the power.
 
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The key to relationships is to keep it exciting, and don't become to obsessed with her that you lose all your friends, hobbies, and things that she was attracted to in the beginning. If you didn't have those in the first place, start developing them. She'll appreciate you more.
 
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