"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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white cloud 8

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Hi,

I am currently in my first relationship, I have been dating this girl for a little over two months (almost three). Could people who are (or had) in a relationship, tell me if it is worth it for me to buy some books on relationships for advice? Would it be useful knowledge? Could people recommend some books to me, please?


-thanks :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phyzzle

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Dr. Dennis Nedder "being a man in a woman's world". Doc Love's "The System". They both talk about what will fly and what won't in a relationship.
 

the_milkman

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you don't really need a book - just trust your feelings. there's no right or wrong in a relationship. i mean, look, that girl likes you the way YOU are, otherwise she wouldn't fancy you, right?
don't trust any books, because you might get dependent on them and that looks very insecure.
just have fun with your new g/f (congratulations!) and enjoy this new part of your life! :flowers:
 

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Do the same sh*t that got you there in the first place. You don't change sucess, you just add to it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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HollowHorizon said:
So suave is more than all u need :)
I think Sosuave is quite detrimental to relationships.

My advice: be fun, communicate, continue self-improvement, give her AMAZING sex, and always be the prize.

Do this and you will always mantain the power.
 

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The key to relationships is to keep it exciting, and don't become to obsessed with her that you lose all your friends, hobbies, and things that she was attracted to in the beginning. If you didn't have those in the first place, start developing them. She'll appreciate you more.
 
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