"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Im new here

joe henny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2010
Messages
325
Reaction score
10
where do I go
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
You've already posted 20 times here. Including another thread you started about being "a new guy".

You do realize that your old posts can be seen, right?
 

joe henny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2010
Messages
325
Reaction score
10
Yeah I know. I have been posting for a few days on random posts, but I just wanted to know the ins and outs of this forum.
 

omega05

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2009
Messages
654
Reaction score
10
Location
chicago
Well you have to start with what you hope to gain from this forum. Why are you here? Not good with females?
 

joe henny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2010
Messages
325
Reaction score
10
omega05 said:
Well you have to start with what you hope to gain from this forum. Why are you here? Not good with females?
No thats not my problem at all I'm in good standing there. I just always like to improve and refine my game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top