I'm never taking advice from here again..

[NFC]

No offense. But I am never going to take advice from here again. Atleast on the forum part. I'll probably resort back to the bible and articles, and a few good threads on here, but no more posting threads about a certain chick or chicks.

I read something on here and it said "If you've already posted a thread about a certain girl then you've already failed". I couldn't agree more. Too much analyzing, too much thinking, too much everything. Half the time the guy hasn't even gone out with the chick yet, they've exchanged a few words and he wants to know how to raise her IL. If you're posting about certain chicks, then you're on your way to a nice hard slam of oneitis. Atleast go out with her a few times to confirm she is interested before you start hoping around with the little tingly sensation in your belly. I know you guys mean well, and want to give advice. But no one knows the situation better than YOU do. Our minds like to warp things, you can probably write it in a way where everything is almost %100 fact, you I'm sure a lot of you do.. in hope of the best advice.. but when you are trying to narrow down everything down to a ****ing science you spend way too much time thinking about ****.. and thinking too much we all know leads to oneitis. So pretty much when it comes to asking for advice on here, probably not a good idea. Some of it may be good, but in all honesty.. you're most likely just failing yourself, and will find yourself obsessing over some chick.. you may keep telling yourself you arent.. but it isnt until your little heart is hurting that you know you ****ed up.

But yeah.. I just had to get this out..

 

[My Name is Nobody]

No offense. But I am never going to take advice from here again. Atleast on the forum part. I'll probably resort back to the bible and articles, and a few good threads on here, but no more posting threads about a certain chick or chicks.

I read something on here and it said "If you've already posted a thread about a certain girl then you've already failed". I couldn't agree more. Too much analyzing, too much thinking, too much everything. Half the time the guy hasn't even gone out with the chick yet, they've exchanged a few words and he wants to know how to raise her IL. If you're posting about certain chicks, then you're on your way to a nice hard slam of oneitis. Atleast go out with her a few times to confirm she is interested before you start hoping around with the little tingly sensation in your belly. I know you guys mean well, and want to give advice. But no one knows the situation better than YOU do. Our minds like to warp things, you can probably write it in a way where everything is almost %100 fact, you I'm sure a lot of you do.. in hope of the best advice.. but when you are trying to narrow down everything down to a ****ing science you spend way too much time thinking about ****.. and thinking too much we all know leads to oneitis. So pretty much when it comes to asking for advice on here, probably not a good idea. Some of it may be good, but in all honesty.. you're most likely just failing yourself, and will find yourself obsessing over some chick.. you may keep telling yourself you arent.. but it isnt until your little heart is hurting that you know you ****ed up.

But yeah.. I just had to get this out..

So we are supposed to be enlightened now by your post? All of a sudden we will figure everything out after reading this and will never seed sosuave again?

Can't wait till your next thread asking for advice.

 

[NFC]

It's called learning from your mistakes.

Although of couse, if you take my advice it wont be a "mistake", because it wont phase you at all. How can it when you don't give a ****?

Honestly, there's only 4 things you need to remember. Be a man, be sexual, keep progressing, don't take no ****. Keep those in mind then live your life.. you'll pick up on the rest through experience.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

It's called learning from your mistakes.

Although of couse, if you take my advice it wont be a "mistake", because it wont phase you at all. How can it when you don't give a ****?

Honestly, there's only 4 things you need to remember. Be a man, be sexual, keep progressing, don't take no ****. Keep those in mind then live your life.. you'll pick up on the rest through experience.

That's all there is to it? Thanks man. I'm walking outside and when I get back, I'll be happy with 10 girls on my d1ck.

No more games, no more thinking, no more heartache.

You the man. Can I send you a check?

I mean damn you should write a book. Who would have thought, a 1 page book with the secret of being a don juan.

 

[SamMalone]

I agree. I like the lower parts of the boards but just reading and reading without action is wasted energy. And I know, as I did that for a good two years before taking action.

"The wise man does not pursue wisdom but lives his life, and therein percisely does his wisdom lie"

 

[My Name is Nobody]

You guys need to go get married and leave the DJ'ing to us.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

You the man. Can I send you a check?

You can send me a check.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

You can send me a check.

First just read me that long number on your credit card.

 

[Jay Jay]

I couldn't agree more.

So why do you always give advise Jay Jay?

Well I always say "she likes you, bust a move."

Secondly it has really helped me lift my game to look at all these situations and figure out the best way to deal with them.

But about asking about a particular girl, its the road to doom. Really you should just imagine what you want and try to make that reality.

JJ

 

[My Name is Nobody]

So why do you always give advise Jay Jay?

Well I always say "she likes you, bust a move."

Secondly it has really helped me lift my game to look at all these situations and figure out the best way to deal with them.

But about asking about a particular girl, its the road to doom. Really you should just imagine what you want and try to make that reality.

JJ

But who gives a f/ck? You guys are contradicting yourself just by agreeing with this post.

This is an anonymous interent. Why should anybody hesitate to ask advice?
Just the fact you are agreeing means you are thinking too much about this.

Not giving a f/ck means not giving a f/ck. Including asking for advice.

This site and forum has helped me get laid many times. Including a one night stand awhile back. The advice I got from here had the girl grabbing my balls as soon as we sat on the sofa.

Literally. We sat down, and she stuck her hand down my fukkin pants.

No way that would have happened if I was just my usual self before sosuave.

Ahh the memories. Now I just need a repeat performance.

 

[NFC]

Well aren't you cool.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Well aren't you cool.

Stop fooling yourself that you got it all figured out. Your brain is lying to you.

 

[Jay Jay]

But who gives a f/ck? You guys are contradicting yourself just by agreeing with this post.

This is an anonymous interent. Why should anybody hesitate to ask advice?
Just the fact you are agreeing means you are thinking too much about this.

Not giving a f/ck means not giving a f/ck. Including asking for advice.

This site and forum has helped me get laid many times. Including a one night stand awhile back. The advice I got from here had the girl grabbing my balls as soon as we sat on the sofa.

So shut the f/ck up.

LOL

I see your point.

I think you are different to many who post and to what I think NFC is talking about.

You have decided to take action, no question. You just want to know what the best action to be taken is. Thats the advice I generally try to give. "You must take action and I'd do it this way."

I think NFC is talking about all the "does she like me? what does this means? blah blah" posts which are no brainers and the only action these dudes take is asking on the internet.

Perhaps I should have clarifed that.

Anyway, peace bro.

JJ

 

[My Name is Nobody]

LOL

I see your point.

I think you are different to many who post and to what I think NFC is talking about.

You have decided to take action, no question. You just want to know what the best action to be taken is. Thats the advice I generally try to give. "You must take action and I'd do it this way."

I think NFC is talking about all the "does she like me? what does this means? blah blah" posts which are no brainers and the only action these dudes take is asking on the internet.

Perhaps I should have clarifed that.

Anyway, peace bro.

JJ

Well, when you are dealing with a flakey chic asking advice seems great. It's easy on the outside to come in and criticize everybody asking for advice. But the person criticizing isn't feeling the emotions of the poster.

So the answer is to become a robot? I'll format my brain tonight and reinstall the operating system.

And contrary to what the site is about One-Itis isn't a bad thing as long as she feels the same way about you. Wait, is it still called One-Itis if she feels the same way about you?

 

[L777]

No offense. But I am never going to take advice from here again. Atleast on the forum part. I'll probably resort back to the bible and articles, and a few good threads on here, but no more posting threads about a certain chick or chicks.

I read something on here and it said "If you've already posted a thread about a certain girl then you've already failed". I couldn't agree more. Too much analyzing, too much thinking, too much everything. Half the time the guy hasn't even gone out with the chick yet, they've exchanged a few words and he wants to know how to raise her IL. If you're posting about certain chicks, then you're on your way to a nice hard slam of oneitis. Atleast go out with her a few times to confirm she is interested before you start hoping around with the little tingly sensation in your belly. I know you guys mean well, and want to give advice. But no one knows the situation better than YOU do. Our minds like to warp things, you can probably write it in a way where everything is almost %100 fact, you I'm sure a lot of you do.. in hope of the best advice.. but when you are trying to narrow down everything down to a ****ing science you spend way too much time thinking about ****.. and thinking too much we all know leads to oneitis. So pretty much when it comes to asking for advice on here, probably not a good idea. Some of it may be good, but in all honesty.. you're most likely just failing yourself, and will find yourself obsessing over some chick.. you may keep telling yourself you arent.. but it isnt until your little heart is hurting that you know you ****ed up.

But yeah.. I just had to get this out..

Come on man, seperate the wheat from the chaff....sure some advice is AFC B.S. but a lot of it is really good, imo, despite the large volume of flaming and general gayness that this board seems to be notorious for.

This site changed my life...I'll always be thankful for that and will always defend the sosuave.com site....even when I'm a MPUA, more famous than Mystery and his ilk.

 

[NFC]

Not all advice on here is ****. But a lot of it is. And I'm glad you can post threads about chicks and not get attached. But I'm like the %95 rest that can't.

It's advice for more of the beginners who have a problem with one it is.

But I am still a firm believer of learning **** on your own is a lot better than taking advice on here. If you're going to take advice, first make sure the question you are asking isnt something that will get you flamed, and I would probably only listen to the veterans.. but that is just me.

 

[n00bPimp]

Dude you sure whine a lot for a man. Even AFC's dont whine half as much as you do. I think you need a dose of testosterone dude.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Yeah some advice is bad. If you are smart you will only take the good advice.

Like earlier someone gave me advice to tell this girl "I am exactly like her ex".. LOL.. because she is hung up on her EX.

LOL thats funny. Don't think I'll be taking that advice.

 

[Tweek_1984]

There is alot to be learned from the pickup community and when it comes to guys who can't get laid, then the advice from here and elsewhere can be invaluable.

However, when asking for advice, you have to take it with a pinch of salt simply because you have no idea who you're talking to. I find it difficult to take advice this way. Especially on a forum which is geared towards guys trying to get laid. There is simply more likely to be a high percentage of losers and keyboard jockeys than on your average forum.

That being said, there is often some great advice on here.

 

[danielzxc]

I know what you're saying man, but sometimes getting advice helps you to see things in a way you've never thought of before and sometimes that can help.

Your problem seems to be that, for you, asking for advice leads to oneitis. So for you, maybe asking for advice on specific girls is not a great idea. It's good to be aware of your weaknesses. Me, not that I would ask for advice on a specific girl, but if I did, meh, no chance that would make it oneitis for me.