"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm never going to get laid hanging with my current friends.

Miguel

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The thing is, friends who are into pick up are RARE. In fact, they could litterally be put on the same rarity as 50billion caret diamonds. Also, if you go out with people new to the game, you'll be discouraged and end up getting no success what-so-ever because your intro buddies probably will be unable to approach for the most part. how do I know this? I was making the same mistake until like 8 days ago...

Heres the thing, you are awsome man, you know this, but you need a way of presenting it better to people... so how is going out with your friends and making EASIER gunna make you better? It's really gunna limit your sucess... my advice, go out by yourself and socialize for starters. Rely on NOBODY but your self and sooner then later you'll notice that you get real balls. Now try a couple approachs... and if your already past that point... then learn to know you can do it alone... and it's often the best way.

Because UNLESS your wingman is GREAT and your GREAT, he will f$$# up you $h!T more times then you will care to know about.

Trust me, I know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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