"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm more or less just using this thread to re-affirm

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I just broke up with my girlfriend today.

Last night I went on a blunt ride with a different girl. Unrelated to breakup, that was gonna happen just didn't yet at that point.

The other girl is pretty hot, hotter than my ex. She wore a skirt and dressy shirt, she cared about how she looked. After we smoked we talked about my situation. She was cheated on by her ex, so I was kinda weary of the impression I would give if I cheated on my girlfriend wit her. I didn't really make any moves, but I think she was giving off signs.

Me: "Do you have to be home?"
Her: "Not really, drop me off if you want to. Otherwise we'll just go someplace else."

We kinda drove around town watching this lightning storm. It was pretty sick.

So clues:
  1. Shes willing to go alone with me and weed
  2. She bothered to dress up
  3. She didn't try to leave right away
  4. She played with her hair one time, legs were pointing away from me though

I'll see what shes doing like tomorrow night or something.

I'm so high.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Reefer+Chix= Great time;)

She's definitely into you though.
 

TheNewGuy

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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
Sooooo you broke up with your girlfriend because this other girl was hotter? I'm proud of your ex for getting away from this shallow guy.
It was a "Jump to Conclusions" mat. You see, it would be this mat that you would put on the floor... and would have different CONCLUSIONS written on it that you could JUMP TO.​

My ex is begging for me back by the way.
 

(JJ)

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lmao office space kicks ass. and always go for the hotter chick in highschool duh. of course its a chick saying she's proud of your ex lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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