Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm currious as to where your having the best of luck as of recent since I'm sick of the bar scene (well not sick of it just running out of options at my local bar) and I usually have good luck at book stores and groceries stores..Vice said:
The magic of this is that I'm young, so I have to think of other things than the bar scene.chrisgoodrich25 said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
My only problem with cashiers..Subway sandwhich workers..waitress what have you is that they don't have to much time for me to make a number close..unless I go there often..I have gotten a good response at subways if theres a eastern european girl working looking to see the states..but thats about itVice said:
Right now I'm at the point where I can get some pretty good reactions with these kinds of girls, but that's about it. I haven't gone in for a number because I'm either too shy or I don't like the girl enough.chrisgoodrich25 said: