"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm making some pretty cool breaththroughs in the areas of WHERE to meet girls

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Over the past few months I've made quite a few realizations and connections in the area of where to meet girls. I'm thinking of writing an eBook or putting up a post on this web site on the topic of WHERE to meet women, not HOW. I'm going to wait until I gain some more experience and stuff before I tackle something like this, but I think it should be fun, and help out alot of guys on here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd read it. I have heard from a lot of people that being a DJ is a way of life. Everywhere you go you should be in DJ mode. Running errands, parties, clubs, work, where ever. It's a way of life more then a mood.
 
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Vice said:
Over the past few months I've made quite a few realizations and connections in the area of where to meet girls. I'm thinking of writing an eBook or putting up a post on this web site on the topic of WHERE to meet women, not HOW. I'm going to wait until I gain some more experience and stuff before I tackle something like this, but I think it should be fun, and help out alot of guys on here.
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I'm currious as to where your having the best of luck as of recent since I'm sick of the bar scene (well not sick of it just running out of options at my local bar) and I usually have good luck at book stores and groceries stores..
 
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I don't only do this for chicks...

Volunter at a animal rescue service, I work the puppy booth and walk the rescued puppies/hold them outside our booth in a downtown city. Tell them what your doing, 99% will say they can't adopt, but they want to. Say they can help out once in a while like you and get their number. Easy as PIE.
 
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chrisgoodrich25 said:
I'm currious as to where your having the best of luck as of recent since I'm sick of the bar scene (well not sick of it just running out of options at my local bar) and I usually have good luck at book stores and groceries stores..
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The magic of this is that I'm young, so I have to think of other things than the bar scene.

And yes, grocery stores and books stores are going to be included in detail, down to what kinds of areas and specific store names/types to look out for.

I'm still a bit shy, but I'm starting to become more playful and charismatic, so I'm starting to get more and more success.

At the moment I can only create attraction with girls that work as cashiers, but I'm starting to branch out to different situations. I'm starting to understand the dynamics, like how you can set the mood of the relationship forever in the first five minutes, and that it's actually EASIER to start it in a fun, playful, sexual vibe than it is by being serious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The magic of this is that I'm young, so I have to think of other things than the bar scene.

And yes, grocery stores and books stores are going to be included in detail, down to what kinds of areas and specific store names/types to look out for.

I'm still a bit shy, but I'm starting to become more playful and charismatic, so I'm starting to get more and more success.

At the moment I can only create attraction with girls that work as cashiers, but I'm starting to branch out to different situations. I'm starting to understand the dynamics, like how you can set the mood of the relationship forever in the first five minutes, and that it's actually EASIER to start it in a fun, playful, sexual vibe than it is by being serious.
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My only problem with cashiers..Subway sandwhich workers..waitress what have you is that they don't have to much time for me to make a number close..unless I go there often..I have gotten a good response at subways if theres a eastern european girl working looking to see the states..but thats about it
 
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chrisgoodrich25 said:
My only problem with cashiers..Subway sandwhich workers..waitress what have you is that they don't have to much time for me to make a number close..unless I go there often..I have gotten a good response at subways if theres a eastern european girl working looking to see the states..but thats about it
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Right now I'm at the point where I can get some pretty good reactions with these kinds of girls, but that's about it. I haven't gone in for a number because I'm either too shy or I don't like the girl enough.

Should I get a number even if I don't like the girl that much physically, just for practice?
 
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