"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm making fun of her

AlexTheGreat

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I'm just wondering : say I laugh at her often ... Am I overdoing it ? I mean, we don't talk very often, but every time, or close, I get an occasion to crack one, I do ... She knows it's a joke, but I'm just wondering if it's too much or not ...

Basically : how much joking is too much, in a conversation ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WhAcKeD!

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Be careful with neghits, if you do them alot they are no longer funny, the girl can look at them as insults.
 

undesputable

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if it worked in the beggining, keep doing it....why stop doing it if it worked in the first place?
 

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Watch her reaction. She might be saying she hates you but still be smiling. Just make sure it's a REAL smile, not a phoney one cuz then you might have gone too far.
 
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