IM mad- being introverted sucks for getting laid

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Ok this is just a rant but this dude I was with hes like nothing special to look at maybe better looking than me.

But hes complaing cause he aint had sex in 3 days.

Hes got a gf but she wasnt putting out recently. SO he been cheating on her.

he slept with 2 different girls over last few days and then 3 days without sex and hes complaining.

THis makes me mad, try 1 year+ ****head....

Difference is he is proactive and goes out to meet girls all time even on work nights. Im depressive, quiet and introverted.

I hate my personailty. I see ugly dudes get laid even with decent looking chicks cause they are loud.

But I am socially crap and very introverted. It sucks for getting laid

 

[shizz702]

I am socially crap and very introverted. It sucks for getting laid

Ok so become extroverted, mprove your social skills, and start getting laid.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Ok so become extroverted, mprove your social skills, and start getting laid.

I tried. I wasnt being myslef. I got stressed. I hated my new self. And I became introverted again.

I read on internet and a good point in a book I bought.

the worst thing an introvert can do is try to become an extrovert. It turned out to be true. I hated being a fake me. I did get laid though. But I couldnt keep it up. Didnt want to

http://www.amazon.com/Introvert-Power-Inner-Hidden-Strength/dp/1402211171

 

[ohnoes]

Follow your dreams donny and do what you are passionate about. You will naturally become extroverted because when you love what you do you can't help but tell others about it!

 

[jt4aa]

Sounds to me like you don't want to change enough at this point in life.

I suggest:

Forget about women for now, give it a few years for the desperation in you to stew, then you'll sort it out in a matter of months.

Anything you do at this point in time will only make you more desperate. This is actually a good thing, though what I am saying to you will make no sense at this stage. You'll see...

 

[1337]

Accept and like who you are first then others will do the same. You gotta accept your self first before you can make improvements.

 

[PapiChulo]

I don't see how being introverted is a problem. Look, social skills are learned, confidence is built as well. Add this two together and you should have no problem. Being an introvert simply means that you prefer your own company and a small circle of trusted people, stressing the word PREFER. If you are quiet it is because you lack confidence in one way or another or balls to express yourself - it's too a skill in a way. Gotta get out of that comfort zone and advertise yourself, given that you actually have a cool personality. I am a learned extravert myself, yet I don't feed off the energy of others, it's rather the other way around. There are some limitations though because I don't really take much interest in the majority of people alltogether.