"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"I'm losing my patience"

(JJ)

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ok this girl ive been gaming is totally into me and we've been out a few times and everything. stuff's been goin great and i was totally planning to ask(/tell lol) her to be exclusive sometime this weekend. but for some reason, today she told one of my/her friends that she was "getting tired of waiting" and "losing her patience." what do you guys make of that? now, also take into consideration she's said nothing like that to me, and i originally thought this friend of ours had some interest in her. so... you know. that might have something to do with it. but help's still appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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john paul

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you say you have hung out with her several times but have you gone for the first kiss yet?
there comes a time when a date is going good that you need to make a move or she will get bored, which she must be because she said something to your friend.
 

(JJ)

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oh yea we've kissed. several times. no problem with that :up:
 
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