ok this girl ive been gaming is totally into me and we've been out a few times and everything. stuff's been goin great and i was totally planning to ask(/tell lol) her to be exclusive sometime this weekend. but for some reason, today she told one of my/her friends that she was "getting tired of waiting" and "losing her patience." what do you guys make of that? now, also take into consideration she's said nothing like that to me, and i originally thought this friend of ours had some interest in her. so... you know. that might have something to do with it. but help's still appreciated.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"I'm losing my patience"
- Thread starter (JJ)
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
you say you have hung out with her several times but have you gone for the first kiss yet?
there comes a time when a date is going good that you need to make a move or she will get bored, which she must be because she said something to your friend.
there comes a time when a date is going good that you need to make a move or she will get bored, which she must be because she said something to your friend.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
just ask her still. chicks are so unpatient. lol...it just means shes ready.
good luck man. =)
good luck man. =)