Last night I was with a group of about 15 people, guys and girls. We went to a lounge and it was basically game on. I was getting all kinds of acceptance from random chicks there. In fact some of them were approaching me while they were talking to my friends.
One of the girls in our group (HB 8) was drunk and started coming on to me. But, I played it cool and didn't try to take her home.
I approached an HB 6 cougar (yeah, I was pretty faded at that point) and she showed me all kinds of sexual interest. I could have number closed, but I decided not to. It was empowering.
What I learned: well, if you are in a big social circle at bar, especially if women are in your group, hooking up becomes infinitely easier. Having women in your group gives you much, much higher social value and this is almost as important as looks when you're out. For the one guy I was arguing with about status a few weeks ago - I apologize. I didn't mean to say that social status was not important. It is sooooo important, and for someone like me, it helps out a lot.
I now think back at how many times I went to a bar with one guy friend and had a horrible night cause I got no action. Man, what a difference having a social circle makes.
Last night I was just about having fun with my friends and laughing my a** off. We did crazy stuff and I was not there thinking about how I'm going to approach a hottie.
At the end of the day, social circle game is huge. Not because it gives you access to women, but because it makes you think less about women. Losing the desperation set me free.
One of the girls in our group (HB 8) was drunk and started coming on to me. But, I played it cool and didn't try to take her home.
I approached an HB 6 cougar (yeah, I was pretty faded at that point) and she showed me all kinds of sexual interest. I could have number closed, but I decided not to. It was empowering.
What I learned: well, if you are in a big social circle at bar, especially if women are in your group, hooking up becomes infinitely easier. Having women in your group gives you much, much higher social value and this is almost as important as looks when you're out. For the one guy I was arguing with about status a few weeks ago - I apologize. I didn't mean to say that social status was not important. It is sooooo important, and for someone like me, it helps out a lot.
I now think back at how many times I went to a bar with one guy friend and had a horrible night cause I got no action. Man, what a difference having a social circle makes.
Last night I was just about having fun with my friends and laughing my a** off. We did crazy stuff and I was not there thinking about how I'm going to approach a hottie.
At the end of the day, social circle game is huge. Not because it gives you access to women, but because it makes you think less about women. Losing the desperation set me free.
