"im kinda talking to someone" vs. " im with someone"

[whosthat]

ive noticed you can get some diff replies here and obviously its for certain a girl relly has a man or has absolutely no interest in you if she clearly says she has a man, dating someone, ect. but ive noticed there are the few out there that will specifically say pretty close to lines rather of "well im kinda talking to someone right now" .

it kinda came to mind to me recently and maybe im thinking to outside, but maybe some girls might not be as good of a lier or trying to give a polite nonchalant turn down there, when in reality there not talking to anyone at all and that was just the way they decided to word there not that interested.

i seem to have thought of this conclusion because i feel that a when a girl is clearly taken they would cleary say so, so now i know when a girl says that line its kinda like well F u then, cuz we know it sucks when a single gal cant even give a decent guy a chance. yall agreee

 

[nismo-4]

All women have options. All women lie.

Women don't care if they hurt your feelings. Women use these lines as rejection. They think they can hold out for a top 10% guy which most of us aren't.

All we can do is spin more plates.

 

[Chamber36]

All women have options. All women lie.

Women don't care if they hurt your feelings. Women use these lines as rejection. They think they can hold out for a top 10% guy which most of us aren't.

All we can do is spin more plates.

I wouldn't see it as ice-cold. At least if they say they are with (or interested in) another guy that's a nice way to reject someone. Then at least you don't have to keep trying over and over again. You can just say: "oh well good luck with him". Be a little chivalrous/courteous about it I guess. No reason to get angry.

It's a blow to the ego but that's what we all have balls for. To motivate us.