im kinda stuck, what do i do next??

[suaveplayer]

Hey guys,

theres this girl i know pretty well, she lives in my dorm hall in college. we've become really close friends, but i am into her and would like to take it to the next level. we've hung out one on one for a couple of times. we have good chemistry. we have fun. we tease each other. i kino her a lot (just light playful stuff though) and she kinos me back slightly. I dunno what i should do tho. how do i convey to her strongly that i am interested?

Thanks

 

[nateistoraw]

Well I say go for it. You do have a time limit until you hit the "Friendzone"! So go for it asap.

 

[schttrj]

listen...

young girls - spike up the buying temperature/stir the emotions and go DIRECT.

old girls - spike up the buying temperature/stir the emotions and let the SEXUAL TENSION build.

Period.

 

[suaveplayer]

how do you "go for it"? thats the questiobn

 

[base2ball2boy2]

how do you "go for it"? thats the questiobn

It's elementary, my dear friend. Just up the ante!
You said:

i kino her a lot (just light playful stuff though) and she kinos me back slightly.

You've got to increase your kino, in both frequency and depth of touch. Instead of light, playful touches, make your touches much more serious and sexual!

As nateistoraw said, you're officially on the LJBF/LFRN clock. So there's no time to waste. Next time you see her, you up the ante. You start making sexual cracks, you up your kino, etc- LET YOUR TESTOSTERONE BE YOUR GUIDE. If it feels right, do it!

 

[Joe Stud]

I think he wants examples. When I'm driving a date in my car, I will rest my hand on her leg. As you both laugh at something funny, rub her leg... inner thigh. when you help her put on her jacket, dont forget to gently take her hair out of the collar of the jacket. When you get up from the dinner table and go to the restroom, as you are returning, crack a joke... and as you walk behind her chair (both of you laughing), touch her shoulders... massaging them for a few seconds. I will even say "there was no hand towels in the bathroom"... she will laugh. When you are at the bar, let her sit at a barstool, and you stand beside her for a bit. Your arm on the back of her chair, and you touch touch touch her shoulders, biceps, etc. then when you sit beside her, do the leg thing again. Notice her watch, bracelet or nails, and hold her forearm as you admire & ask about them. Do it all like you are just being a natural touchy guy. Watch out for the face, some women dont like it because they dont want their makup messed.

 

[trent81]

My advice; immediately be seen or talk that you have other women. Immediately cease and desist all friend activity. This includes all day time activity. Immediately make a move. I have been down this road. I gave her anal after two years of friendship, wanna know how? I made her jealous, I made her seem like I was wanted. That she was missing out. I was 21.

 

[suaveplayer]

thanks for the good tips. keep it coming

 

[scrouds]

There are other fish in the sea. Go find a chick you're not in the friendzone with.

 

[nateistoraw]

Okay in order to end this friendzone, compliment her on something completely random.lol. And then say, hey, you have too many friends, lets try to be psuedo lovers.