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Bokanovsky said:
So you're upset that some guy you think is "not alpha" and only works as a pizzeria manager has a better looking girl than you do. So, in a true alpha fashion, you decide to find a more attractive mate...I mean, b!tch about it on the Internet. I see.
my point is about 5 levels above your pay grade and requires a level of rational thinking frankly, you just don't seem to possess.


consumerism drives the dating market. It's not responsible. Women seem to be making more irrational more irresponsible chooses that in turn give men less and less of reasons to go to school, to work and achieve things.


If I can get laid, consistently, by not going to school, not having a decent job, not having a house, not having a car.. why do it? If being responsible, getting an education, having things like, a mortgage, health insurance, means that I'm not going to have success finding a woman until i'm in my mid to late 30's what good is that? Better yet, when having a mortage, a insurance, a real job is more of a DETERRENT toy ou getting laid as it is for a lot of guys in their mid 20's to early 30's to mid 30's.. why would I do that? 15 years is a lot of time to work your way up jacking off while bums around you are getting laid like it's going out of style.


It's really a spin on this article

http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424052748704409004576146321725889448


what the article doesn't say is that women are consistently rewarding this behavior in men thus this is why they do it.
 

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backbreaker said:
my point is about 5 levels above your pay grade
You are not even using that expression correctly. A "point" cannot be above your "pay grade". A job is "above your pay grade". A point is "over your head". Try graduating from high school before attacking somebody else's intelligence level ;)
 

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backbreaker said:
If I can get laid, consistently, by not going to school, not having a decent job, not having a house, not having a car.. why do it?
Because there is more to life than fvcking? Are you some kind of a primitive mammal that can only derive pleasure from sex? Personally, I didn't go to school, get a good job, car, house etc. to impress women. If getting women is your top priority in life, you have already lost.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
You are not even using that expression correctly. A "point" cannot be above your "pay grade". A job is "above your pay grade". A point is "over your head". Try graduating from high school before attacking somebody else's intelligence level ;)
He's being metaphorical. It makes sense when you look at it that way and is actually pretty clever.

I still think he wants to snog his wife's friend though. It's entirely too much space wasted writing about it for any other reason.
 

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So instead of sitting down and trying to intelligently respond to what i posted you find one thing in the post to launch an attack towards me. Well if he doesn't know the difference between this I can point that out and not be bothered to try to respond to the rest.


See, bigots like you.. I scare you. You find comfort in black guys that are ghetto and ignorant. But a guy like me, a guy who plays the game game as you do and is much, much better at it... it makes your skin crawl. You look for any little thing just like the AFC you are.


There is not a subject you can bring up, maybe outside of white pride or some **** that i could not and would not take you behind the woodshed in. You know this as well as i do so you nibble around the edges like the BETA AFC that you are.


I still think he wants to snog his wife's friend though. It's entirely too much space wasted writing about it for any other reason.
she's got some jacked up feet lol. my wife has some friends who if i were single i'd snag but she's not one of them. I'm all about the feet. But for guys who aren't foot crazy like I am she's probably a legit 8
 

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backbreaker said:
See, bigots like you.. I scare you. You find comfort in black guys that are ghetto and ignorant.
WTF? Where did that come from? YOU, that's where. Nobody else. YOUR OWN INSECURITY. F*cking racist prick, guys like you are the worst kinds. The kind that try to hide it, and when people call you on your bullsh*t, you cry racism.

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But a guy like me, a guy who plays the game game as you do and is much, much better at it... it makes your skin crawl. You look for any little thing just like the AFC you are.There is not a subject you can bring up, maybe outside of white pride or some **** that i could not and would not take you behind the woodshed in. You know this as well as i do so you nibble around the edges like the BETA AFC that you are.
That's high quality delusion right there. Textbook deflection. Bokanovsky told you his opinion in his first post in this thread, and it got to you. You know, the insecurity thing again. Basically the whole reason you made this thread.
 

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Whats wrong with being a pizza store manager? Probably a good job, easy work, all the pizza you can eat. Probably not hard at all... BB, you think you have stress guy? Try my job: kid threw a fkin chair through a window then tried to climb out and jump out of a 20 storey building cause he lost at a game in my class. Later he gets a lolipop from his mum and a pat on the head... proceeds to throw temper tantrums every class for the entire semester.

Pizza Manager? A customer calls to complain that a pizza is burned so he has to make another one. There is something to be said for low stress jobs.

I'd rather have his job any day.
 

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backbreaker said:
See, bigots like you.. I scare you. You find comfort in black guys that are ghetto and ignorant. But a guy like me, a guy who plays the game game as you do and is much, much better at it... it makes your skin crawl. You look for any little thing just like the AFC you are.
Actually, you are ghetto and ignorant (and I find little "comfort" in that). I don't care what your race is. I dislike you because you are an attention wh0re, because you gossip about your friends/acquaintances behind their backs and because you put down other people to feel better about yourself. Oh and let's not forget that you have been repeatedly exposed as a liar and fraud, backbreaker a.k.a. taussaud a.k.a. Brandon Washington.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1935793

That, and not your race, is what makes my skin crawl. But keep playing the race card. At the end of the day, that's all that ignorant ghetto trash can do.
 

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backbreaker, you've heard of feminism right?
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That, and not your race, is what makes my skin crawl. But keep playing the race card. At the end of the day, that's all that ignorant ghetto trash can do.
I don't get the race card thing either, why throw that out there?
 

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Women take the passive role. Lots of guys flirt with them but how many actually ask them out? That requires putting yourself at risk for rejection. Maybe this pizza guy is the best offer she's had.
 

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Bokanovsky, if you dislike BB so much, why are you guys even commenting on his thread?

If you think someone's an AW, you should stop giving them attention. Otherwise you just become part of the problem you're complaining about.
 

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BB is right. to an extent.
i can say i am in the same situation. i earn at least 3-4x what the avg joe earns in my region. i see deadbeat losers get the hottest girls around.
and i still don't care. why? because:
1. i made this career FOR MYSELF, not to be able to fvck cvunt with better decoration
2. i still bang hot girls
3. with my money i can do what i like most: my hobby.

sure, there were some girls who were mostly interested in me potentially being a good provider, but so what?
investing in looks only is a stupid idea. it will fade. couple of years and that guy will have no looks no status no everything. if i lose my looks i can still score some with my other commodities, like good game (which i try to improve every day), status gained over time, and yes, even money. that is what will make you able to fvck hot gold diggers at age of 75.

so i can see no reason to be frustrated. everybody makes the most with what he has. if a guy has nothing but looks, well good for him, let him take advantage of it, if he has it.

and about the average joes who earn ok but are unable to get girls because they don't go to the gym / don't dress ok, and are boring as fvck, they deserve it. don't tell me they don't have 2 hrs every second day to visit the gym and if they have the dough they can ever hire a personal trainer to get in shape fast.

everyone gets what he deserves, and deserves only what he got. thinking they "deserve" woman because they work is anything but the reality. some men are too obsessed with the holy cvnt and think they are successful only if they fvck a lot of hb8+. try again :)
 

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Plenty of women go by looks only. One of the biggest players in my work building works in the mail room. He's one of the lowest paid guys, but women like his look. Actually, he's fat too, but some women love the stocky look. It is what it is.
 

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HoneyHitter said:
Bokanovsky, if you dislike BB so much, why are you guys even commenting on his thread?

If you think someone's an AW, you should stop giving them attention. Otherwise you just become part of the problem you're complaining about.
Because that's what message boards are for. Your response is a cop-out, and that cycle could go on forever. For example, why are you telling Bokanovsky not to comment? I'm sure he decided whether or not to comment on his own, he doesn't need your help. Why do you care? Just ignore him.

I'm fairly certain that in real life, backbreaker is not someone that I'd associate with. But we're all anonymous message board posters here, don't make too much of it.
 

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backbreaker said:
my point is about 5 levels above your pay grade and requires a level of rational thinking frankly, you just don't seem to possess.


consumerism drives the dating market. It's not responsible. Women seem to be making more irrational more irresponsible chooses that in turn give men less and less of reasons to go to school, to work and achieve things.


If I can get laid, consistently, by not going to school, not having a decent job, not having a house, not having a car.. why do it? If being responsible, getting an education, having things like, a mortgage, health insurance, means that I'm not going to have success finding a woman until i'm in my mid to late 30's what good is that? Better yet, when having a mortage, a insurance, a real job is more of a DETERRENT toy ou getting laid as it is for a lot of guys in their mid 20's to early 30's to mid 30's.. why would I do that? 15 years is a lot of time to work your way up jacking off while bums around you are getting laid like it's going out of style.


It's really a spin on this article

http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424052748704409004576146321725889448


what the article doesn't say is that women are consistently rewarding this behavior in men thus this is why they do it.

from what I could see your friend Charles shows status, and he can get laid, BB most of guys here can get laid, and that is easy, hell this sunday I possible start a FWB with a woman I possible will only see if I get horny and nothing else, but sure she is not any kind of quality for anything serious.

also why you care for what your wife friends say? first you should never really consider what woman say they want, second you can if youa re in teh conversation(i'm guessing you are since you are hearing everything) burst they bubble a little, make then get a little annoyed with you for pulling the victim card they like to use, have fun with then, if they don't like this hey at least they will stop showing up, or at least don't talk about it again.

and BB you are showing too much anger here, its like you hate your life and feels jealous for these guys getting what they want(AKA SEX) without stress, and they are not in your view of quality, or worthy people.

again don't hate then jsut think hey at least this one will stop crying there is no men for then, people do mistakes and have crap choices made, but you can't force then be smart, you can only choose who you will have around, and if you don't want to have dramatic people like this around, start to cut then off
 

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Mike32ct said:
Plenty of women go by looks only. One of the biggest players in my work building works in the mail room. He's one of the lowest paid guys, but women like his look. Actually, he's fat too, but some women love the stocky look. It is what it is.
You know what they say: Looks, money, status, game. If you have either one of those things in abundance, you should be able to get laid.

Mike, you bring up that some girls like the stocky look. I have to agree, although that seems to be something that is rarely talked about here. If you go by what they say here, women will only notice you if you are shredded with six pack abs and 5% body fat. I think the appeal of the stocky look is probably that they look like they have enough mass to throw around to be a Protector, if need be.

Alvafe said:
most of guys here can get laid, and that is easy
Go read the general forum. A lot of guys over there seem to think it would be easier to climb Everest without oxygen.
 

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LiveFreeX said:
Whats wrong with being a pizza store manager? Probably a good job, easy work, all the pizza you can eat. Probably not hard at all... BB, you think you have stress guy? Try my job: kid threw a fkin chair through a window then tried to climb out and jump out of a 20 storey building cause he lost at a game in my class. Later he gets a lolipop from his mum and a pat on the head... proceeds to throw temper tantrums every class for the entire semester.

Pizza Manager? A customer calls to complain that a pizza is burned so he has to make another one. There is something to be said for low stress jobs.

I'd rather have his job any day.

Chesus. Holy sh!t.
 

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zekko said:
You know what they say: Looks, money, status, game. If you have either one of those things in abundance, you should be able to get laid.

Mike, you bring up that some girls like the stocky look. I have to agree, although that seems to be something that is rarely talked about here. If you go by what they say here, women will only notice you if you are shredded with six pack abs and 5% body fat. I think the appeal of the stocky look is probably that they look like they have enough mass to throw around to be a Protector, if need be.
I agree completely. It is a dominance/protector thing. Every stocky dude I know scores fairly easily. Many don't work out at all. Their size gets them enough attention. Of course, those that do work out have the size and muscle tone which is a powerful combo. But, all I'm saying is that size alone can work.

Stocky >> skinny*

*Only tall dudes can get away with being skinny.

Anyway, I don't want to drift far off topic.

Ultimately, it's not always the most lean and toned guy with the biggest paycheck in the building scoring the most poon. It's more complicated than that lol.
 

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Because that's what message boards are for. Your response is a cop-out, and that cycle could go on forever. For example, why are you telling Bokanovsky not to comment? I'm sure he decided whether or not to comment on his own, he doesn't need your help. Why do you care? Just ignore him.
I'm interested in the topic that's being discussed. There's no reason to pollute the discussion with personal attacks, just because you don't like a poster's style of writing. You can disagree without adding all that emotional garbage to this thread.
 

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HoneyHitter said:
I'm interested in the topic that's being discussed. There's no reason to pollute the discussion with personal attacks, just because you don't like a poster's style of writing. You can disagree without adding all that emotional garbage to this thread.
Whats the topic? It bothers bb that some guy who hasnt worked on a career or education can get a hot broad with out having to accomplish as much as bb did?

Who cares, there is a saying I've adopted "I guess that's what happens to him then." you can say this about any situation.

Live and let live, mind your own buisness.

Back breaker. What your doing now, is just like when some one who is poor complains about how its unfair that you have money.
 
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