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This agitates me. So one of my wife's friends, she's honestly.. pretty damn hot lol. She's good looking. 29 years old, leggy, in shape, works out all the time, she's good looking. Not a big partier. Never really has been. She's not a BAD girl... but she's an avg american girl and I can see what men are *****ing about.


Girl is dating a freaking pizza store manager lol. for like 2 years! I've met teh guy.. the guy is not "alpha". he's good looking, he's not tall, he's my height (5'8), but he works out all the time and he's in shape. can dress. but there is nothing "alpha" or "dj" about him .


it's like, i can see it now lol. sometimes I think what if my business did not take off. what if i had to work 60 hours a week just to bring home 50-60k a year and i was stuck living in arkansas what would my dating life be like right now. This type of stuff makes me sad


it's like, everything you've been lead to believe about everything growing up is bull****. all of it. it's like, guys would in a sense be better off not going to school, not trying and just going to the gym and watching TV all day becuase that's all girls want. a "hot" guy.


Rollo says "only one things matters is she's gotta be hot". It just makes me mad. I got guy associates who work their ass off.. decent looking guys but hey have too many responsibilities to live in the gym 2-3 hours a day, they have real ****ing jobs and real bills and this dude lives at home with his parents and is dating a ****ing smoke show lol.


it's like i want to give women more credit than this lol. i've had sex with a lot of hot women, but my wife is mature and we click and is nurturing and very patient.


This is why i see thread that talk about things like ambition and say it's bull****. I don't see it.

IT's like the things that women value, throw the entire dating ecosystem out of wack.


that's a good analogy. dating is like an ecosystem. women are supposed to like men with nice jobs and with real ambition and they don't. they like men with iphones and abs. that in turn makes men lazy and less ambitious which is in turn has real world effects.

you see it all the time "women are smarter than men women graduate more".. well **** give a guy a good reason to go to school and he will lol.


and i want to drive this home. she's not a slut. she's a pretty nice girl. this is an AVG american woman. she's college educated. she has a job, drives a 40k car.


i'm really, really, REALLy glad i'm married lol. it's funny i don't see anywhere near as many posts guys ****ting me on being married anymore. I look at women like this and shake my head.

then when she realizes that pizza guy is never gonna get a real job now it's my 35-37 year old friends job to "settle down with her"


that ****ing sucks lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Why would they be any other way though? I mean seriously, you grew up in the hood, you know how it goes. Nerdy and corny brothers get no love. If they have child support, welfare, wick and or a good job to pay all of their own bills, why wouldn't they date strictly for Vag tingles? I mean right?

Now if there were barbarians at the gate, food was scarce and one hand to hunt, fight and gather for survival...it might be a different story. If they had no rights, it might be a different story. But this is what we have now and baring the full collapse of the West, that's not going to change. So as a man you have two options. Be what they want, or go your own way.

90% of guys whining and moaning online are in the grey. They don't have the time/energy/willpower to be what women want but they can't give up their love of vag to go their own way. How do I know? *raises hand* I just don't have the time and energy to stay in the gym, do family stuff, work on my business and date women. But I still wanna get laid. The women who want me are beneath me, the ones that are on my level think they can do better. Slumming it only ruins your self esteem but only slightly less than rejection. What are your options? Mine? Sacrifice. No vag, no women. money and family and the occasional random hook up. It sucks but its the best of a bad lot.
 

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Why would they be any other way though? I mean seriously, you grew up in the hood, you know how it goes.
actually i didn't. lol i probably grew up in the furthest thing from the hood.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Maybe you have been wrong all this time about money mattering so much and that is why you are irritated.

no it actually proves my point more.

I'm not avg. I drive a luxury car I live in a nice house I wear nice clothes, I have every toy that an adult male could want short of a motorcycle. I travel, I throw parties all the time.

But everyone isn't like me. Every guy can't make his own hours and go to the gym at 9 in the morning everyday.

What about the guy that is working 6 days a week to pay his bills? has a goo djob but isn't a baller? Lives in a nice house but is not in the upscale part of town


It's like you're being penalized for actually making enough money to pay your own bills. I guess that's what i'm trying tos ay. You make too much money and have too much stuff to do to be able to afford a 100 a month gym membership and got ot eh gym 2 hours a day. But you dont' make enough money to overcome it by just being a baller lol. You make enough money to pay for payment on your new Sonata but you dont' make enough to lease a new infiniti.

it's like if you aren't that 2nd guy you are better off not even trying. you're better off living at home with your parents than having a "regular" house.

one of my guy friends had to just sign up for obamacare, (not the place for this) but he akes too much money to get free health insurance. he has to pay 250 a month. But this girl's BF doesn't have to pay for insurance because he doesn't make enough money. so his entire check aan go to "fun ****" like beer and partying and playing and my friends check has to go to paying for insurance.

girl was happy becuase her BF took her to the cheesecake factory this weekend and spent a grip on her then took her to the movies. Responsible guy who has his health insurance and his mortgage do can't do that. and he gets blue balled because of it.

yet the 2nd guy gets rewarded.


even if i gave you the fact that money doesn't matter to women, I have a standard of living. I am not living at home. I like having a savings account. I like being able to go to the doctor when I damn well need to. Being a responsible adult is a natural thing to do for a male but it's being encouraged not to do so by women.

Money is freedom. No one can tell me what to do, when to do it. No one can tell me where to live, how to live. No woman is worth that, i don't care how nice her tits are.
 

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backbreaker said:
no it actually proves my point more.

I'm not avg. I drive a luxury car I live in a nice house I wear nice clothes, I have every toy that an adult male could want short of a motorcycle. I travel, I throw parties all the time.

But everyone isn't like me. Every guy can't make his own hours and go to the gym at 9 in the morning everyday.

What about the guy that is working 6 days a week to pay his bills? has a goo djob but isn't a baller? Lives in a nice house but is not in the upscale part of town


It's like you're being penalized for actually making enough money to pay your own bills. I guess that's what i'm trying tos ay. You make too much money and have too much stuff to do to be able to afford a 100 a month gym membership and got ot eh gym 2 hours a day. But you dont' make enough money to overcome it by just being a baller lol. You make enough money to pay for payment on your new Sonata but you dont' make enough to lease a new infiniti.

it's like if you aren't that 2nd guy you are better off not even trying. you're better off living at home with your parents than having a "regular" house.

one of my guy friends had to just sign up for obamacare, (not the place for this) but he akes too much money to get free health insurance. he has to pay 250 a month. But this girl's BF doesn't have to pay for insurance because he doesn't make enough money. so his entire check aan go to "fun ****" like beer and partying and playing and my friends check has to go to paying for insurance.

girl was happy becuase her BF took her to the cheesecake factory this weekend and spent a grip on her then took her to the movies. Responsible guy who has his health insurance and his mortgage do can't do that. and he gets blue balled because of it.

yet the 2nd guy gets rewarded.

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This is where I live. I make enough to stay alive and in relative comfort (clean house, clean clothes, decent food with an occasional night out to somewhere cheap.) I have friends who are ballers and broke, they all have women. Every guy I know who is where I am at either has sh1tty loser women full of drama or massively fat/unattractive women. The guys with money have hot chics, the broke guy who works at GMC and lives at home has hot chics.

The average day to day work to surivive guy is shorted. So you can either drop out and be prole or get money and be a baller. Average = nothing in the sexual market place. Extremes rule the tingle.
 

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I'll chime in on this. When your good looking people in general are nicer to you and like on you. I notice this.

I think it has a lot to do with our media. I kinda look like Leonardo, or bradd pit. I think its because we have similar features, like the eyebrows, nose, hair color, eye shape.

Most of my ex's would comment on how I'm good looking. I have my ex from when I was like 16 on my fb. Shes married with like 4 kids now. I was talking to her a few months ago, and she was telling me how she used to be obessed with me when we went to the same church. To be honest I didn't even know we went to the same church until she told me this.

Even guys like you better when your good looking. At school I saw this 18 yo kid with an army backpack. So i asked him if he was in the service, what his job was. Just small talk. He saw I had a flip phone, and told me how he can give me his old smart phone, no rhyme or reason. He even went home to go get it and bring it to me.

Even my ex who definatley had some sort of personality disorder, I lived at the house she lived at for months for free. When she finally got a job, guess who she handed her check to. She would gawk and my looks to, overtly.

My last ex, I was a straight addict for the last year, just like in "the wolf on wallstreet" She would gawk at my looks to. She was a giver.

This girl I used to take back to the cornfield and fvck in her car. She lived like 45 mins away, and she would drive almost every nigh to see me, and bring me sandwiches (she worked at cousins subs). my mom is a church nazi so we couldn't really bang at my house. One night I was tired of banging in the car, so we got a hotel room, and I made her pay half.

Women can make their own money now, they don't necessarily need or want ours. But be financially stable and independent is important also.

However I've mostly gotten along by my looks most of my life. Even getting jobs, people will more likely hire the good looking person.

Now this guy might have his own type of game, but you havnt had a chance to observe it and figure it out.

But to be honest, looks do go far. But game is necessary also.
 

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backbreaker said:
Girl is dating a freaking pizza store manager lol. for like 2 years! I've met teh guy.. the guy is not "alpha". he's good looking, he's not tall, he's my height (5'8), but he works out all the time and he's in shape. can dress. but there is nothing "alpha" or "dj" about him .
Sounds like he's happier than you are.

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it's like, i can see it now lol. sometimes I think what if my business did not take off. what if i had to work 60 hours a week just to bring home 50-60k a year and i was stuck living in arkansas what would my dating life be like right now. This type of stuff makes me sad
What's sad is your insistence to honor yourself continually.

backbreaker said:
I'm not avg. I drive a luxury car I live in a nice house I wear nice clothes, I have every toy that an adult male could want short of a motorcycle. I travel, I throw parties all the time.

But everyone isn't like me. Every guy can't make his own hours and go to the gym at 9 in the morning everyday.

What about the guy that is working 6 days a week to pay his bills? has a goo djob but isn't a baller? Lives in a nice house but is not in the upscale part of town
Blah, blah, pathetic. More of the same.

backbreaker said:
It's like you're being penalized for actually making enough money to pay your own bills.
Wow the irony is strong here. I bet you voted for Obama? Look in the mirror, pal, the enemy is you.

backbreaker said:
I guess that's what i'm trying tos ay.
Nobody knows because you can't spell and don't form complete sentences and type sh*t like "LOL"

backbreaker said:
Money is freedom. No one can tell me what to do, when to do it. No one can tell me where to live, how to live. No woman is worth that, i don't care how nice her tits are.
No woman is telling this other guy what to do other it seems. Seems to me like he's just more attractive than you, and it drives you nuts. You have the whole world (according to you) but your d*ck doesn't measure up to this other guy's. And it pisses you off.

Sadly predictable.
 

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backbreaker said:
This agitates me. So one of my wife's friends, she's honestly.. pretty damn hot lol. She's good looking. 29 years old, leggy, in shape, works out all the time, she's good looking. Not a big partier. Never really has been. She's not a BAD girl... but she's an avg american girl and I can see what men are *****ing about.


Girl is dating a freaking pizza store manager lol. for like 2 years! I've met teh guy.. the guy is not "alpha". he's good looking, he's not tall, he's my height (5'8), but he works out all the time and he's in shape. can dress. but there is nothing "alpha" or "dj" about him .


it's like, i can see it now lol. sometimes I think what if my business did not take off. what if i had to work 60 hours a week just to bring home 50-60k a year and i was stuck living in arkansas what would my dating life be like right now. This type of stuff makes me sad


it's like, everything you've been lead to believe about everything growing up is bull****. all of it. it's like, guys would in a sense be better off not going to school, not trying and just going to the gym and watching TV all day becuase that's all girls want. a "hot" guy.


Rollo says "only one things matters is she's gotta be hot". It just makes me mad. I got guy associates who work their ass off.. decent looking guys but hey have too many responsibilities to live in the gym 2-3 hours a day, they have real ****ing jobs and real bills and this dude lives at home with his parents and is dating a ****ing smoke show lol.


it's like i want to give women more credit than this lol. i've had sex with a lot of hot women, but my wife is mature and we click and is nurturing and very patient.


This is why i see thread that talk about things like ambition and say it's bull****. I don't see it.

IT's like the things that women value, throw the entire dating ecosystem out of wack.


that's a good analogy. dating is like an ecosystem. women are supposed to like men with nice jobs and with real ambition and they don't. they like men with iphones and abs. that in turn makes men lazy and less ambitious which is in turn has real world effects.

you see it all the time "women are smarter than men women graduate more".. well **** give a guy a good reason to go to school and he will lol.


and i want to drive this home. she's not a slut. she's a pretty nice girl. this is an AVG american woman. she's college educated. she has a job, drives a 40k car.


i'm really, really, REALLy glad i'm married lol. it's funny i don't see anywhere near as many posts guys ****ting me on being married anymore. I look at women like this and shake my head.

then when she realizes that pizza guy is never gonna get a real job now it's my 35-37 year old friends job to "settle down with her"


that ****ing sucks lol
I think you are not knowing all the facts, maybe he can't be like you said full of money, but certainly he do something right to her want him, also like you said 29, is not like around that age woman try to setle down?

also you supose he is poor, are you sure he is not the owner of the place? or he are investing in something who did give him some nice return? you also said it, he is ok looks and know how to dress, if he can show status to people around even if he don't really ahve any its enough.

but serious BB looks more like mid life crisis or something lol, you came here to vent about one guys who in your view scored pretty well and had to do little or nothing to have it, its the same with that all the "you need to have a car to get laid", you know its not true, but sure damn it helps, and a lot depending on what car you are using it will give the status the girl will look.

you also know pretty well most of time you don't need to make big money, you just need to show you have status, having a good looking face, being clean, you take care of yourself, and don't look like a hobo make people stop and talk with you.

and why give woman any credit? giving credit to any person without they doing anything to deserve it is useless and like you can guess leads to frustration, you want to belive, they are better, thing is they are not, same for guys and same for woman, both are diferent but men and woman are humans, saying one is better jsut because is diferent is wrong and stupid.

BB if you want to understand how things go you will need more info too on this case, I don't know if you are holding info, but waht you shared is hard to you to define how things btw these 2 are.

ah yes btw money can be freedom or a slaver, its you who define with is with
 

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backbreaker said:
Girl is dating a freaking pizza store manager lol. for like 2 years! I've met teh guy.. the guy is not "alpha". he's good looking, he's not tall, he's my height (5'8), but he works out all the time and he's in shape. can dress. but there is nothing "alpha" or "dj" about him .
Sounds like this should give some guys around here some hope. Sounds like he's a fairly average guy, but he's banging a pretty hot chick. Don't pizza store managers have to work long hours though? I'm a little surprised he has the time to work out a lot and go out and date regularly.

backbreaker said:
women are supposed to like men with nice jobs and with real ambition and they don't. they like men with iphones and abs. that in turn makes men lazy and less ambitious which is in turn has real world effects
It's hard to overestimate women's stupidity. But this is the problem with men these days. If the only reason guys have ambition is so that they can get some poon, they've got their priorities in the wrong place. Nothing wrong with wanting poon, everybody does. But it's just like working out. You should do it to take care of yourself, not so you can get some woman.

Warrior74 said:
The women who want me are beneath me, the ones that are on my level think they can do better
Yeah, that's pretty much the way life works most of the time. It's like women with hypergamy, you have to be on the lookout to cut the best deal for yourself that you can.
 

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Kinda comes off like you think you're more entitled to bang your wife's friend than pizza man, and that's what pisses you off. Maybe he has a 12" rod and knows a c spot like the back of his hand.
 

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Kinda comes off like you think you're more entitled to bang your wife's friend than pizza man, and that's what pisses you off. Maybe he has a 12" rod and knows a c spot like the back of his hand.
This +1.

You should just talk to your wife's friend dude. She might even be into you.
 

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i don't want my wife's friend. if i wanted my wife's friend i would have talked to my wife's friend when i met her and not my wife. I love my wife. you guys seriously do not understand how crazy i am about my wife. I love that woman to death. she's not even in the top 5 of my wife's hottest friends. my wife has some serious talent lol. but she is very good looking still.



you guys say he's a normal guy but i guarantee you he's better looking than just about everyone in this thread. he's not "normal" he's just not loaded. he's extremely handsome and in shape.


it just pisses me off. you don't live here. you don't have to sit here every ****ing saturday and listen to your wife's friends *****a bout not being able to find good men and wishing their men would get their **** together and ***** about how they can't afford to do this or go do that ,or talk about how they wish they didn't live at home with their parents and stuf like that. Then in the same room you got this group of guys, who.. have their **** together lol. who have houses, who are responsible. and they are looking around like.. um.. WTF lol?

never do these women think.. damn.. this dude over here, he's might not be super duper hot but he's good looking. he's not super exciting he's responsible but he he's realiable. reliability doesn't mean **** today.


i'm just sick and tired of seeing all my girl friends, ***** about their me not being able to "commit".. i.e buy a house, get a real car, get a real job, start a family.. and then in the same god damn room seeing all these dudes ***** about not being able to find a woman. never does it appear to the women that these guys can offer these women waht they want.


this same chick has been crying and *****ing to my wife for the last year becuase she wants a baby / a family. this dude works at a pizza store he can't afford kids. he can't afford an engagement ring. he can't afford any grown person **** lol. But she will put up with it all becuase her BF is good looking.


i got 3 guy associates, that are very datable guys. about 7's on the scale.. make upwards of 50k a year, but not balling.. responsible guys, one is 31 one is 35 one is 38. they can't win beucase they don't have the discretionary income as the lazy bum dude who has no real bills. guy making 60k in LA with a 1500 a month mortgage, insurance, car note, groceries, can't compete with the pizza guy making 25k a year living at home with no bills but his iphone and gas money for his 95 honda accord lol

the guy gets to go take let's say.. a 500 dollar a week check and gets to spend every bit of it on clothes and going out money lol like he's in high school just with a better job. Dude doesn't even buy groceries. but if you make 1150 a week, taxes, a 1500 a month mortgage, a 400 dollar car note, insurance, gas, eats that up really really quick. he's rewarded for this ****ty behavior. the dude is damn near 30 and lives like he's in high school. spending entire checks on food and clothes is what i did in 11th grade.

that's what irks the **** out of me
 

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Women are usually never happy. They think they want something, but once they have it they either don't want it anymore, or they want even more.

Go in a different room, or make them go in a different room.

Rich people have the lamest problems.
 

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to better illistrate my point, and to stop all the flaming, i will use a different example

some of you may remember "charles" the guy that cuts my hair.

I know a guy, charles is his name actually, works at mc donalds, literally. biggest ****ing chump i have ever seen in my life. spends all day caking talking on the phone to girls, and has them lined up. Because hes fun. he's not a jerk. avg looking black guy. NOt handsome but clean. Not ugly. he's not alpha. but he spends all his money on clothes cologne, going to the movies and stuff like that.

hes 34 years old. he doesn't ask himself deep questions like, what am i doing with my life lol. questions like this are above charles' head. He doesn't save money. He buys scratch off tickets. He actually asked me to give him 600 dollars so he could buy a roll of scratch offs lol once. I know him because he cuts my hair. He has talent. He's such a good barber I let him cut my hair and I can cut my own damn hair quite well. Hes very good and refuses to go to school to do it or a living. But he likes doing it and does it on the side, but because he does not have a real license he has to charge 5 dollars a head just to get practice. But he's good.

My point being, this is the guy that you are losing your women to. Hes not a jerk. half the time hes around me he's talking about how girls are doing him wrong and hes crying about a girl not calling him and **** like that. hes what this site would call a BETA but he's successful.

girls like going out with him because hes' fun.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2127134&postcount=26


Charles, works at Mc Donalds. I don't mean he has a bad job. I don't mean he works in the restaurant industry. I mean, he works at mcdonalds lol. He makes about 9 dollars. Doesn't even work full time he works about 4 days a week.


Charles is 34 years old. Let's say Charles works 32 hours a week his check (mc donalds pays on the 5th and the 20th i worked there in high school) would be $576. Let's say after taxes and **** his check is $520 dollars


that's every 2 weeks. Charles probably clears another 100 a week from cutting hair so let's say he makes an even 650 every 2 weeks. just to be generous. That does not sound like a lot of money. IN fact it's not a lot of money. Its **** money.


Here are some things to consider about charles

1. he lives at home with his mom.
2. He gets an EBT card doesn't even pay for his own food.
3. He doesn't have a car. walks to work

This mother****er literally has, no bills. he has a pre paid cell phone. That's it.

He has $600 dollars every 2 weeks to buy clothes, jewelry, shoes, go out to eat, go to the movies. And that's what he does. Dude has at least 10 pairs of jordans. All types of colognes. Dude blows money so bad he bought a scooter a few weeks ago becuase HE HAS NOTHING ELSE TO BUY lol.

He's got his iphone, he's got his jordans and his 100 dollar blue jeans on with his polo shirt on, he's clean. not a care in the ****ing world lol. This dude keeps beer / vodka / **** all the time. I mean if you didn't have to buy a house, a car or food what would you spend your money on lol?


and women eat it up. albeit, not high quality women, but still you think a starving man cares about the fat content in a hamburger lol?

Charles gets tail. every once in a while some half decent tail he shows me pictures. he's proud of his conquests.


It's not even about women liking money. these women like Charles because they think / see he has disposable income. so even though he has a **** job he has more money than, say a guy who is 34 with a mortgage and a car note and other bills, savings, etc.


that doesn't even count the freaking grand plus he gets back from the goverment for being poor and lazy every year at tax time tha the gets to blow on.


what i'm saying is that warrior had it right. the guy who works hard and is responsible yet who isn't just.. a baller.. is worse off than the guy who just is not responsible. being responsible is a turn off to women. as PRF said it wasn't always like this.

of course until the woman wants a ring. then it all flips lol.
 

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backbreaker said:
you guys say he's a normal guy but i guarantee you he's better looking than just about everyone in this thread. he's not "normal" he's just not loaded. he's extremely handsome and in shape.
Well, if he's that good looking, then of course chicks are going to be interested in him. That's what he's being rewarded for, his looks, not the fact that he's a slacker. At least he has a job, so he's not a complete deadbeat. Is it fair? No, but is it fair that the pretty girls get more attention than the ugly girls? That's just the way life is. Besides, at least he works out a lot, so it's not like he's getting something for nothing.

backbreaker said:
it just pisses me off. you don't live here. you don't have to sit here every ****ing saturday and listen to your wife's friends *****a bout not being able to find good men and wishing their men would get their **** together and ***** about how they can't afford to do this or go do that ,or talk about how they wish they didn't live at home with their parents and stuf like that. Then in the same room you got this group of guys, who.. have their **** together lol. who have houses, who are responsible. and they are looking around like.. um.. WTF lol?
Maybe these guys should step up to some of these girls instead of sitting on the couch looking around saying wtf? If these guys have their sh!t together and are decent looking dudes there's no reason they can't get some women. Maybe your wife's friends are too delusional and entitled to give them a fair shake, but I have no idea there are girls out there who will.

backbreaker said:
i got 3 guy associates, that are very datable guys. about 7's on the scale.. make upwards of 50k a year, but not balling.
I don't see how anyone can live in LA on 50k a year from what I hear.
 

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I don't see how anyone can live in LA on 50k a year from what I hear.
it's possible. but you would be barley getting by.


Maybe these guys should step up to some of these girls instead of sitting on the couch looking around saying wtf? If these guys have their sh!t together and are decent looking dudes there's no reason they can't get some women. Maybe your wife's friends are too delusional and entitled to give them a fair shake, but I have no idea there are girls out there who will.

they're not interested. I tried to hook one of them up with one about 2 years ago and she was like "he's just not that exciting" i'm like no **** he has a ****ing job he can't take off work on a tuesday and **** you 10 times lol
 

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backbreaker said:
they're not interested. I tried to hook one of them up with one about 2 years ago and she was like "he's just not that exciting" i'm like no **** he has a ****ing job he can't take off work on a tuesday and **** you 10 times lol
Hook ups can make a guy look weak, compared to if they would step up to the girls themselves and run some game on them. But it sounds like the problem is with your wife's friends. I'm not as cynical as most guys on this board, but it is true that good women are hard to find.
 

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backbreaker said:
i don't want my wife's friend. if i wanted my wife's friend i would have talked to my wife's friend when i met her and not my wife. I love my wife. you guys seriously do not understand how crazy i am about my wife. I love that woman to death. she's not even in the top 5 of my wife's hottest friends. my wife has some serious talent lol. but she is very good looking still.
I'm sure you love your wife. Doesn't mean you don't want to bang this girl.

Anytime I hear a an unrelated guy talking about how ugly/beta/stupid the guy is that another girl is dating it's ALWAYS because they want to fvck them.

I can't really see why they would care otherwise. Other than if someone who just likes to hate other people of course. Which is actually worse if you ask me.
 

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So you're upset that some guy you think is "not alpha" and only works as a pizzeria manager has a better looking girl than you do. So, in a true alpha fashion, you decide to find a more attractive mate...I mean, b!tch about it on the Internet. I see.
 

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