I'm in trouble.

[Hold my martian]

So me and my friend, his gf and her friend went to the beach. My friends a true DJ but I'm trying to get back into the game. I'm still trying to get over this hurdle I have now. I'm a very closed person and some days I'm not very outgoing. The day at the beach I was extremely suckin it up. My friend and his gf were trying extremely hard to get us hooked up and we had some good moments of kino(They got us to get close for some pics, I tried brushin her hand a few times, etc). I just wasn't talking. I really just didnt know what to say. Well this girl was a go-go dancer and i wanna see how that translates into after hours recreation. I'm just lost in the sauce and don't know where to start with it. Any advice would be nice.

 

[NewAndImproved]

You sound a lot like me.

First, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Since your friend's gf is trying to hook you up, the girl must like you. So try to relax.

Second, get into a good state before you guys hang out. Lift. Mediate. Play a sport. Run. Do anything but stress about the "date." I know what you mean about being out of it. I'm trying to work on being less state-dependent but for now the best I can do is do things beforehand that I know will relax me.

Good luck.

 

[Hold my martian]

That's most likely my problem. It's been awhile so I'll just try to take it slow and calm down. Thanks for the advice.

 

[Vader]

Can you say pressure, for her too. If you get a secound try at the double date thing your in.

 

[DonGorgon]

You are too slow and AFC fro her .. move one or she will chew you up..