Will900
Don Juan
please help my girl says she is gettin bored it ruins me help???
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
im in trouble?????
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Will900
Don Juan
wot u mean act shadey?
Don't return her calls like you used to...
Put her on block on aim/msn/whatever... (If you even did that...)
Keep the phone conversations short and about other people...
Tell her you are going to go hang out with friends and REALLY go hang out with friends. Don't say if they are male or female... etc... Keep her wondering...
FYI. There is a small chance she is talking to another guy.
I had a girlfriend in high school about 4 years ago who pulled this same crap.
She told me "I'm getting bored..."
A month later I pull up to her house and this guy has his arm around her...
They had been talking for a month, I got played...
Put her on block on aim/msn/whatever... (If you even did that...)
Keep the phone conversations short and about other people...
Tell her you are going to go hang out with friends and REALLY go hang out with friends. Don't say if they are male or female... etc... Keep her wondering...
FYI. There is a small chance she is talking to another guy.
I had a girlfriend in high school about 4 years ago who pulled this same crap.
She told me "I'm getting bored..."
A month later I pull up to her house and this guy has his arm around her...
They had been talking for a month, I got played...
Will900
Don Juan
thats wot im worried about lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
well if you catch her with another dude don't snap and bust out his window and try to pull him out of the car... Like I did... I had to pay his dad 500$ to shut the F*ck up and not press charges, the boy was 17, I was like 18, etc...
Point is... Laugh at her, and just walk away and never talk to her again...
Point is... Laugh at her, and just walk away and never talk to her again...
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Act like tha real slim shadey - wear a cape - like the video!!!!Will900 said:
HAHAHA, nice!Last Man Standing said:
LoL Did I spell shady wrong?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=shady
THERE! You can read the meanings! hehe
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Desdinova has a point...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.