"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im in trouble guys, I madeout with a drunk girl, when I was sober

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I'm sorry but am I missing something here:confused: :confused:

You made out with a drunk girl and half the replys are saying you shouldnt have done that? Ummm, call me crazy but people, including myself, have drunk SEX all the time(well, when an oppurtunity comes along). Usually just ends up being a ONS but whats the big deal (use protection). You are not rapeing anybody nor are you breaking any laws, you are just 2 young horny people that had a good time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pappadapolis

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Scorched said:
What the fvck...

You are not going to be in any legal trouble....

I don't see why everyone got mad...
Were you in a room alone with her in the dark?!

Guy Wanting to be a Hero: "You need to leave."
You: **** you *****, all we did was make out, she kissed me first and stuck her tounge in MY MOUTH, stop trying to be someone's hero.

Guy Wanting to be a Hero: "Do you even know her name?"
I woulda said fvck you dude, you'd make out with her too if she came onto you. Stop trying to play hero.

Don't apologize for sh*t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG!
She came onto you!

Tell them they shouldn't have let her drink so much.

Peronally drunk girls make me kinda sick...
Like I wouldn't touch them.

**Standing ovation and Bravo**

Those dudes are hating c*ckblockers. If she was passed out you'd be dead wrong and deserve jail time. As long as she wasn't passed out, it's all good. Alcohol is nothing but liquid courage. The dudes telling you that you should be ashamed are AFCs. Why the FVCK do you think clubs offer free cover and cheap drinks for women? Because they know dudes will come to. Ignore the dudes who say that you should be ashamed. They are AFCs that haven't learned to take an opportunity when it presents itself. Apparently, they've never seen a Girls Gone Wild commercial.
 

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no I think you are not at fault. She kissed you and you took advantage.. as for those guys who said u better leave or they are going to kick your ass.. haha that means you hit their soft spot I guess they are a bunch of AFCs who wish they could bang her or are banging her.. YOU THE MAN you did what comes naturally. Your friends yelled at you? What are they geology nerds? I just gave u rep points.
 

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Well, one thing for sure that made me think you're wrong - you took advantage of her! If in any case you come across her path, at least try to clear things between the two of you. A good and nice talk will make everything okay.
As to your friend, approach him/her and clear things with him/her as well. I'm sure he or she will understand.
 
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WTf, it's the virgin guy's fault and not the drunken hor??? She took advantage of him!!! Quit making excuses for drunken hors!!! If he was drunk and she was sober and he kissed her -- would it be her fault!!!! HELL NO!!!! It'll be his fault again, right! :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerotwoonenine

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they cant do anything to u cos u didnt even do anything to her.
Just leave it, apologise to your friend and explain that she came on 2 u and forced u 2 kiss her.
What a bich
 

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fedge098 said:
Well, one thing for sure that made me think you're wrong - you took advantage of her! If in any case you come across her path, at least try to clear things between the two of you. A good and nice talk will make everything okay.
As to your friend, approach him/her and clear things with him/her as well. I'm sure he or she will understand.
Now THAT'S an AFC response.
 

Juan_Man

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Pappadapolis said:
Now THAT'S an AFC response.

It's not an AFC response. It's a "being smart and not always thinking with your ****" response. An apology may or may not be necessary for this girl (she probably already forgot about it) unless he really feels guilty and feels the need to bury the hatchet. Yes, there was probably some racism involved (I've seen guys do the same thing without attack), but the truth remains that nothing good can come from being with a drunk girl when you are sober.
 
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