"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in the Dallas Magazine!

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Congratulations! I think you come off well even though the article was a hatchet job - because everybody will naturally assume that the female journalist hated the thought of the seminars and set out to cut you down, so they won't believe her. (She learned from sociology class to intensely hate men identifying themselves as men, no doubt.) And every reader will find the idea of such seminars intriguing, and would like to see for themselves what secrets you teach there.

If you haven't been in the news before, welcome to the club - now you know how they almost always make the object of an article either a demon or an angel. You got the demon treatment, so have some other people I know. The carelessness and the outright lying about facts is normal - they know noone will sue them.

Note how their strongest weapon is not actually lying, but making everything sound more extreme than it is. They'll pick the details that help them in that endeavor, and they'll choose their words carefully. An extreme picture, a "strawman," is always easier to strike down than the real, nuanced picture. So Prophet seems "born again," and so on.

Thank God for the internet, sapping the power and authority of these news bastards. Ahh, good times...!

(I don't like media people? How could you tell?)
 

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So, how well do the newbies do when you take them out like that? And what do they think of it afterward? Nervous or happy?
 

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Man did she make it sound so ......... negative damn, and that vigo guy just needs a kick up the backside, if you read between the lines she sorta makes it sound like we have no soul and we're doing something evil.

p.s why didnt one of your better guys try and game here the hard way, she knows your there to game so it would have been a challenge, might of made her see things from a different angle
 

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Here's a link to some excerpts of their reviews/reports:
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2005/07/testimonial-excerpts.html

I think they got a lot out of it, at least I hope they did. The results of the night, which she didn't speak of, was one make out, couple of kiss closes, and several number closes.

Couple of my previous Dallas students from those workshops (at least three that I know of) have gotten laid since then. Can't attribute it all to my teaching (as much as it inflates my ego), but I like to think that I was able to help them out.

As for Gaming her, that was a business call on my end. I thought it would have been a bad idea to mix that up (especially if it ended up being a ONS... which she just had BEFORE the event). And anyways, she definitely wasn't hot. At best, I'd give her a 5.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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"I am the only woman in the Belmont Room, and no one wants my opinion on how to approach women. The irony appears lost on everyone."

Hahaha. Classic female mind. Awesome :)
 

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Actually, I think that part was FALSE.

She never really gave her opinion, mostly taking notes. What's she is referring to there about my "cute tits" opener is that I was saying that it's not about WHAT you say, but HOW you say it... not that I'd ever recommend a newbie use that approach until he's actually gotten good.
 
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