"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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me and this young woman have been friends for 5 months and have been dating for 1 month. We are pretty much best friends and tell each other anything. Here is my situation: After about a week we were kissing............etc.

But one day she caught me by surprise and put some tongue into her kiss. I anticipated for this kiss for so long that when i kissed her back, i was nervous. It was awful; i put in too much tongue, almost knocked her backwards, and i kissed her for too long-after she stopped i kept on going.

I know this sounds crazy but i have been a great kisser until that one moment. Now she acts as if she doesn't want to be affectionate with me any more (not that i can blame her), but it has been two weeks since we have kissed, and I walk with her maybe 6 or 7 times a day in school.

She says that she doesn't like making decisions, but she initiated all of our kisses. I don't know if she is afraid ill mess up again or if she wants me to make a move.

How can i recover from this dumb mistake? How can i get her to be affectionate with me again? I don't want to ask her about because i'm afraid ill sound like a pervert or a dummy. What should I do? i am in dire need of help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by YoungPoet2006
me and this young woman have been friends for 5 months and have been dating for 1 month. We are pretty much best friends and tell each other anything. Here is my situation: After about a week we were kissing............etc.

But one day she caught me by surprise and put some tongue into her kiss. I anticipated for this kiss for so long that when i kissed her back, i was nervous. It was awful; i put in too much tongue, almost knocked her backwards, and i kissed her for too long-after she stopped i kept on going.

I know this sounds crazy but i have been a great kisser until that one moment. Now she acts as if she doesn't want to be affectionate with me any more (not that i can blame her), but it has been two weeks since we have kissed, and I walk with her maybe 6 or 7 times a day in school.

She says that she doesn't like making decisions, but she initiated all of our kisses. I don't know if she is afraid ill mess up again or if she wants me to make a move.

How can i recover from this dumb mistake? How can i get her to be affectionate with me again? I don't want to ask her about because i'm afraid ill sound like a pervert or a dummy. What should I do? i am in dire need of help.
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Real simple bro, just kiss her again.

Fall of the horse get back on, keep it simple.
 
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Don't wait for her to initiate everything or else you're going to get nowhere. She's already made it clear that she has no problem with you being somewhat sexual with her. You've already got the green light, so go for it!
 
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yeah show her that you really know how to kiss. She showed you that she is ok with kissing, now show her that you are too
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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young won.

take charge...show her what you want! and if she doesnt want what you want..accept it..and move on!
 
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Man, if she's so shallow that she'll get so disappointed after one bad kiss.......that would be just stupid and unreasonable on her part. I wouldn't worry about it.
 
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alright. thank yall for your very insightful advice. i'm going to start tonight. holla at ya boy!
 
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I don't mean to be an a$$hole, but copying my topic title is really sh1tty of you.
 
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Who knows dude, it could be her that thinks she is an awful kisser. That will lead her to feel uncomfortable initiating it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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