Please read this brief story to understand. I dated a girl for 7 months, and its been about 6 months sicne we broke up, and i STILL have feeligns for her. I broke up wuith her the first two times, she was really sketchy, and didnt seem faithful at times, with some proof of it. But i ended up loving her, although at first i didnt care that much. Well 2nd time we broke up, i had good reason, she lied to me about seeing this guy that was trying to make moves on her and stuff. So i dated this other girl for 2-3 weeks. And we ****ed. But i decided ii missed my ex to much. So i went back to her. And she claimed i cheated on, but its bull**** i wasnt dating her. So we went out another 4 months, she started gettign sketchy with a friend of mine. Then this friend tried to assault me, over my gf. And i said "bro im not goign to fight you over my gf, unless its to protect her, otherwise its immature." Later she broke up with me. Lied to me and continued to play and kiss me and ****. But the obvious she was dating that other guy. This guys really wierd and strange, they are still together 6mos. First month she tried to play with me it seemed still like me w/e. This girl and i shared virginities and all. I see her everyday at school, and occasionally with her faggy bf. It drives me nuts, and why i dont know. It reverts me to wanting to talk to her on emails adn stuff. I keep missing her... i cant help it. I need advice.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Go out and get laid by a hotter, sexier chick worthy of you.
Sometime down the line when you've got a HB on your arm and she see's you walking hand in hand down the street all happy and **** she'll try and come crawling back.
Sometime down the line when you've got a HB on your arm and she see's you walking hand in hand down the street all happy and **** she'll try and come crawling back.
one problem i have with that bro, is really strange. I view her as a 10(my ex) although thats not necessarily true. Alot of people would say shes ugly, or hot. Its one or the other thing. But ive had a hard time finding girls i see attractiv lately. There is one but been kinda odd pursuit with her.
Fenderules
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who would you rather have a 10 that cheats on you or a six that will give her life for you if she had to????
Alpine
Master Don Juan
You've got it bad all right.
First, she may be a 10 but looses at least a point or two for not wanting to be with you don't you think?
She only does stuff to you now to make herself feel less guilty, you'll never get her back, nor should you want to.
Time will show you in retrospect. In a few years you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.
You could always punch out her new boyfriend if that makes you feel any better, but I've never understood it myself.
First, she may be a 10 but looses at least a point or two for not wanting to be with you don't you think?
She only does stuff to you now to make herself feel less guilty, you'll never get her back, nor should you want to.
Time will show you in retrospect. In a few years you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.
You could always punch out her new boyfriend if that makes you feel any better, but I've never understood it myself.
How old is this girl? You should be forwarned that girls who are 19-23 go through a phase. Modern society tells them that they need to be with many guys (all because a guy can do it and they can't). Be aware that girls this young can't be taken seriously. They are not capable of having a relationship. They are very imature. Guys like you are infact more mature at that age.
This girl is not for you. Just accept it. Pick yourself up and move on. Don't send her emails or call her. She used you to pop her cherry so she could start f-cking around.
As I've said before, at that age date women who are older or younger then 18 (just keep it legal) .
Try to figure out how a REAL man would act in this situation. Don't cry or sulk about it. Figure out how you can fix this problem.
I would just start dating many girls. Increase the numbers in your book and be the ladies man.
This girl is not for you. Just accept it. Pick yourself up and move on. Don't send her emails or call her. She used you to pop her cherry so she could start f-cking around.
As I've said before, at that age date women who are older or younger then 18 (just keep it legal) .
Try to figure out how a REAL man would act in this situation. Don't cry or sulk about it. Figure out how you can fix this problem.
I would just start dating many girls. Increase the numbers in your book and be the ladies man.
in a few years you are going to laugh at this.
don't worry about it or her. Girls are not going to react to you the way you think. What you have been told about girls isn't going to be true. You have a lot to go through. Just read as much as you can on this site. read some of the articles.
try this one
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16113
and this one
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926
sorry don't mean to make you think of that snatch, but
that must of been some clean p-ssy though.
don't worry about it or her. Girls are not going to react to you the way you think. What you have been told about girls isn't going to be true. You have a lot to go through. Just read as much as you can on this site. read some of the articles.
try this one
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16113
and this one
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926
sorry don't mean to make you think of that snatch, but
that must of been some clean p-ssy though.