So its been a long time since i have posted here or even visited. But I come back with much needed advice.
Long story short, I found the girl I'd like to have a long term relationship with three years ago. Over time, shes gained some pounds. I dont want to say that i m shallow, because i still love her, but i am concerned for her overall health in the long term. What I do to stay in shape is martial arts which i have been doing now for almost 3 years.
I looked around and some tips I read were:
1) suggest sporty type dates (ie tennis, volleyball...)
2) suggest to exercise with me (running, going to the gym)
3) something similar to the last two...
But the problems with those tips for my situation is that she has bad depth perception and doesnt really like sports with a ball involved. She also refuses to run or exercise with me because she says she feels stupid because im so much more in shape than her.
One sign of hope though is that she is showing interest in taking JiuJitsu with me. She even did tried it once and enjoyed it. Though she was shy in doing the warmup, and im hoping she doesnt shy away from it completely. I encourage her to stick with it and am hoping for the best.
Long story short, I found the girl I'd like to have a long term relationship with three years ago. Over time, shes gained some pounds. I dont want to say that i m shallow, because i still love her, but i am concerned for her overall health in the long term. What I do to stay in shape is martial arts which i have been doing now for almost 3 years.
I looked around and some tips I read were:
1) suggest sporty type dates (ie tennis, volleyball...)
2) suggest to exercise with me (running, going to the gym)
3) something similar to the last two...
But the problems with those tips for my situation is that she has bad depth perception and doesnt really like sports with a ball involved. She also refuses to run or exercise with me because she says she feels stupid because im so much more in shape than her.
One sign of hope though is that she is showing interest in taking JiuJitsu with me. She even did tried it once and enjoyed it. Though she was shy in doing the warmup, and im hoping she doesnt shy away from it completely. I encourage her to stick with it and am hoping for the best.