"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm in College, she is still in high school

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There is a girl that I deeply like and appreciate, however I am in college. I don't have a car so I can't visit her often, however we have remained close. We communicate via the phone and IM/E-Mails. What can I say or write to her that tells her that I want to take it to the next level? I want some way to ask her a questions to see if she too wants to take it to the next level just to see where it can go. I don't know what to do in this situation honestly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You can't take it to the next level through writing. It needs to be physical.
 
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Why not persue college girls instead? Especially if you don't have a car, college girls are more avilable and more convinant. I was lucky where I moved far far away from my home town so I didn't have to deal with something like this, but still, even if I'd of stayed there I'd soon enough realize that I'm young and there's no reason why I shouldn't explore the opportunites my progressing life has presented to me.

Side note: My first room mate in said far away college, in hawaii, hooked up with girls in our school peroidically but tried to maintain a reationship with his girl who was still in High School. He ended up moving back and she ended up dumping him after he got there. You have life choices to make. Make sure you concider them carefully and try to realize that things change when the two of you are apart and are prevented from seeing one another.
 
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JoshtheBetterer said:
What can I say or write to her that tells her that I want to take it to the next level? I want some way to ask her a questions to see if she too wants to take it to the next level just to see where it can go. I don't know what to do in this situation honestly.
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you are just plain creepy :nervous: wtf is the next level? i cannot imagine anyone being so unromantic as to email, write, or talk to a girl about taking it to "the next level" (whatever that might be). love is not contract law. you don't negotiate terms or propose offers. think grey - not black and white.

see, the problem with the don juan b.s. is that it doesn't teach you how to love. you have to embrace your soul in order to get a "high" quality of girl. don juans seem to only desire tramps.

do me a favor and take a listen to the cd entitled Star by Milky. feel that cd and many of your problems will be solved. :up: the cd is entirely in english save for one brilliant song. the most amazing song ever written about love/romance. it is called Non so perchè. wow! that song is brilliant. the title simply means "i don't know why" in italian. the lyrics really touch upon what romance is all about.

p.s. romance is amazing. some of the guys on here are just bitter because they can't experience it. my suggestion is to give it a try. avoid the crazy college parties. stick to the girl that has your heart. you won't be sorry.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wtf are americans and brits so into age? maturity not age.
 
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sparky0000 said:
wtf are americans and brits so into age? maturity not age.
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age defines maturity just as much. theres a difference if she is 15, 16, 17, or 18. and there are also legal issues as well in USA when someone 18+ goes with someone below 18 and are having sex. shocking ey?
 
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