I'm I expecting to much?

[wherealltheladyz]

I'm currently in a relationship with this girl. Its been about a month. We only really talk to each other for about 3 months. Lately we been hanging out 3 to 4 times a week. Each time its more than 6 hours. She stay over my place sometime. We already had sex. Everything was going find until yesterday. I ask her to go to lunch, which she told me she already had plans with a friend. I told her to forget about that and just go eat with me. She also already ate some food beforehand. I believe her because I ate some of that stuff too.

Anyways I ask if shes coming over the next day. She ask me what was the next day? I told her just come and chill. She told me that she got a family dinner. I got kind of mad at this point. She also told me she has to take her friend to the doctor the following day. That's when I started to get a little vulgar. I told her that all sudden its really hard hanging out with you. We got in a little argument which I kind of curse at her.

I mean is that to much to ask or being inconsiderate? I know its still early in a relationship and we just trying to have a feel for each other. I tend to get angry when things don't go my way.

 

[Iceberg]

Even in my 2-year relationships, I'd only see my girlfriend 2 or 3 times per week.

You're one month in, and already spending most of the week together. You can't be that available to a girl. It's boring to them. I don't care if she was super High Interest, and she initiated it most of the time, or whatever...that High Interest wears off quickly.

You gotta back away and let her miss you sometimes. Let her wonder where you are and what you're doing.

 

[thevilittletroll]

you are walking on thin ice my friend. you are acting really needy and she may just want some space to get away and hang out with some friends. you should do the same. this is the fastest way to lose a girl. you got mad cause she didnt hang out with you a couple of times. you are putting way to much value on being with her. this sub communicates that you have no life, no friends, not social, no other options with girls, nothing better to do with your time. she has all the power now. she knows that she can go out and do whatever she wants, when she wants. she also knows that if she wants to hang out all she has to do is ask, and you'll drop everything you are doing. i hate to say this but i give this relationship about 2 more weeks before she has a talk with you and says i think i need some space.

 

[Prometheus Pyrphoros]

Stop being needy.

Stop the insecure behavior and get a grip on your emotions.

You are a man, not a child.



Regards.