"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm Hideous!

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by shrewd
woohoo thanks man that was reassuring...between the two of us though i have been called UGLY right to my face several times...it gets you thinking after the 3rd or fourth time.:( I used to have pretty bad acne it's clearing up now though...anyways, what kind of solid clean look do you mean? Like should i make the sides alot shorter and gel the front? forgive me for obsessing over this but my hair has always looked like ****.
you look fine, nothing wrong apart from your clothes in the latest pic, but the ones in the other pics are fine so you got nothing to worry about, as for being called uglt, dont listen to them, you know how people often diss you with stuff that si not true, well if they call you ugly, why do you asume they are not lieing.

heres what a girl that im convinced likes me, said to me last week.... "your so big headed, you think your gorgeous, well let me tell you somthing, your not"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WesCottII

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heres what a girl that im convinced likes me, said to me last week.... "your so big headed, you think your gorgeous, well let me tell you somthing, your not"
You're blinded by the idea that you're the ****. She doesn't like you.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by WesCottII
You're blinded by the idea that you're the ****. She doesn't like you.
how exactly would you know? iv seen the proof, such as her complaining that i check other girls out. just to mention 1 of many.
 

B9

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don't think you're ugly, though perhaps a bit unassuming.

If you can, I'd suggest growing a beard and trimming your hair very short, to match in lengths or thereabouts. Reckon it would make you look more masculine and distinct.

may want to revise your clothing style though. That mixture of shirts is fvking horrible (not to mention horrible on their own as well).
 
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