“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Im good looking but im not sexy

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R1ch4rd

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Right... Over a year ago or so i started going out with friends. I was a social recluse before then. Now I noticed i got loads of stares and shy looks from cute girls and some loud girls even flirting with me.. Now I don't seem to get much, I mean I'm taller, dress well and I'm still good looking.
But Last night im sitting there at a party. My hairs pretty good look messy/medium, got a bit of stylish stubble what makes me look bit older, and this other guy, wouldnt really call ugly or good looking, this sexy girls like hes well sexy.
Now is it because I need to get leaner(bit of fat still on cheeks) a sexy hairstyle? or what?
At the moment what keeps my confidence up is knowing that Im good looking, and blessed with these genes, but when that gets knocked like this its really hard.

Man im soo loostt :S:S
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All I have to say is I don't think confidence should be based on your looks; it should be based on truly understanding your character.

Basing your confidence on your looks will make you insecure because other peoples' opinions may matter more than your own, and that is why girls are often insecure.
 
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Read the post in my signature...If you really don't feel like improving, i'll summarize it for you

As sage said..confidence shouldn't come solely/at all from looks

Your ego is what's killing you...It makes you feel insecure/not confident. It tells you that you need to look better, get bigger, get richer, etc.

The ego also leads to judgment and having opinions. I know it may be hard to comprehend since we're taught from a young age to have opinions on certain subjects. But the problem this creates is duality. We begin to see things as independent beings. You see yourself as separate from others; you must realize that we are all connected and one. Everything is and has always been everything. There is genuine equality among all things, living or non living.

Why should you feel inferior/not confident? Why should you feel confident based on external appearances which anyone can now manipulate with a machete or plastic surgery operation? If anything, confidence should come from an internal source. A source that is founded on deep understanding of the world and morality.
 
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