Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Same way hot girls have insecurities, even when lots of guys are begging for their attention.Maxtro said:
Ya, I've since calmed down, lol. Since last night i've lost the urge to really sweat her. I think the fact is that i thought i wanted her immediately and now i realize i need to step it back and relax. I talked to the older guys at work and they basically explained to me that older women want younger guys more for just sex.eminence said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Woman only have the power over the men in the dating game if the men give them that power, in reality it is better to be a man than a woman, it is possible for 90% of all men to allure a hot babe in the top 20% of looks, though only 30% of the hottest woman can allure a man who is in the best 20% of looks.Mad Manic said:
What's this percentage stuff? Have women come down to a numbers game and are you hoping for house odds on this? :crazy:HaremMasterThomas said:
