"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im gonna meet her, how should I act to get laid?

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So I met this girl 2 weeks ago at a club and she seemed like an awesome girl, the type you'd take home to mom. I met her only because she's my friend's friend so we were properly introduced.

We exchanged numbers and we kept in contact ever since. The only problem is, the next day she went back home, since she was only on vacation. Now I found out my friends are gonna go there. and I told her "Yeah I might go s ince it's my friends birthday.." and she's like "You should come!!" and all that.

But heres the thing, I found out from my friend that she asked her certain things like "I wonder what he wants out of this?" Because we both know there can't be a relationship since we don't live in the same state. So I asked my friend "Does she think that I Just want to hook up with her? Or does she just want to hook up with me?" I dunno. I told her whatever happens, happens.

So now I'm going to see her, and she said s he'll pick me up from the airport and hang out with me while I'm there because she's the only person I know that lives there. So I'm just wondering, how should I act to get laid? Cause that's all I want. I'll be getting a hotel for the night and I'll try to get her to stay with me. My first thoughts though is NOT to hit on her. Just be cool and don't make any moves on her f or the first day until we go Clubbing and get drunk. Then I'll h ave a reason to go in for the K-close and then F-close? How should I handle this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your goal is right but your technique is off. If you don't hit on her for the entire day and then start laying it on heavy, she could shut you down fast or just get very uncomfortable (read= not horny).

What you want to do is be playful and funny during the day using some light kino and express some interest. As the night progresses read her BL and such and turn up the heat. Don't get a hotel room until you find what the deal is though because:

A) plans may change and you guys could end up elsewhere, say, her house

and

B) That would look presumptious which is a big turn-off.

Good luck
 
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Alright, so show her interest? I just fear of being "too pushy" or moving too fast.The only reason why I am getting the hotel is because I told her "If I go.. I won't have anywhere to stay so idk if i'm going.." and she was like "We can have a hotel party" cause she recommended it that I could stay at a hotel. I won't be able to stay at her house because she lives with mom and dad.
 
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