"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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im gonna be a patient.

DJ Alejandro

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guys, i wouldn't really know where to post this which is why im just taking a guess since it involves my body.

im taking up nursing right now and then this gay clinical instructor of mine just assigned me to be his patient for a demonstration in front of the class on how it is to bathe a patient in bed!

in short, he's asking me to strip right down to my shorts in front of at least 41 people with 5 out of 9 guy classmates gay!!!

holy sh*t!!! and i cant do anything about it! im also skinny which is why im having problems taking my shirt off for "display".

i also have some "battle scars" on my back from my riot days. but the main problem i have is that i also have a lotta hickeys and they ain't gonna be gone in just a few days!!! im gonna get embarassed! what should i do? and what kind of impression would they get from seeing my hickeys?!!

i really need you all in on this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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are you worried that you'll be embarassed or that all those gay people will get naked and jump in with you?
 

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quite both actually. im more concerned with my hickeys as of the moment. im not planning on getting rid of them soon but rather, what that would imply to the crowd.
 

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why do you care about that anyways? did you see how many "out of shape" people strip down on national television nowadays? if they can do it on TV looking the way they do whats stopping you.
 

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if you're worried because they're gay then i'd put your focus on the attitude adjustment. i promise you they are there to take the class, not because they want you.

if you dont want to do it. just tell him. you can explain the situation honestly, or just say you'd prefer not to. this sounds like its not too big a deal

is there a reason you cant decline? do you think it will effect your evaluation or anything?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im sure you can refuse to do this...

If your prof says you cant refuse, take it up with his authority and tell him your not comfortable doing this seeing how the teacher and classmates are queer.
 

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i thought you were an italian explaining his newfound desire to persevere with his training.

anyway, i think you should do it because it will let you overcome your insecurity about your body AND there are 32 girls in the class right? all wanting to become nurses? when they see all your hickey's, they're gonna start thinking "who's this guy, and what's he been up to? does my chest look big enough in this nurse's outfit?". go for it mate
 

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levex, quite true. thanks. that really gave me a boost.

MrFitness880, i have tried getting out of it and despite having refused 3 times in class didn't really work.

Jimbo2k, yes, i have also tried that but they just said that i was just simply "my turn" and im gonna have to relate to being a patient so i could understand how it would feel". damn it! this wasn't what i was expecting.

gav, hey. i never really thought about it that way but i guess you've got a point there.

but really, im starting to get the feeling as i would when doing cold approaches. only intensified. :(
 
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