"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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InsidiousNstinct

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The title pretty much sums it up. I got to get my life in order, everything is so out of whack and disfunctional.

I'll probably be back, but I have no idea when......

Wish everyone happy hunting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Microphone Fiend

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peace out man...everyone needs time to reevaluate themselves. I'd suggest maybe saving 1-2 post from the bible you like, cuz i remember when i took a long break from the site, i'd get lost but not feel like loggin on, and i had some saved posts that cud help me, stay on track. Something epic like Weapon's of Mass seduction, or 10 lessons
 

paraguayandj

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have fun
 

Mr. Debonaire

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just remember to keep your priorities in order

we'll miss you bro
 

Rad

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Alright man, I hope you get everything straight. Remember these wise words by Judas Priest

"Don't give in...aim for a new tommorow"

The whole song is great, I'm sure you know it. It's "You've got another thing coming".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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