"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm gone

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InsidiousNstinct

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The title pretty much sums it up. I got to get my life in order, everything is so out of whack and disfunctional.

I'll probably be back, but I have no idea when......

Wish everyone happy hunting.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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peace out man...everyone needs time to reevaluate themselves. I'd suggest maybe saving 1-2 post from the bible you like, cuz i remember when i took a long break from the site, i'd get lost but not feel like loggin on, and i had some saved posts that cud help me, stay on track. Something epic like Weapon's of Mass seduction, or 10 lessons
 
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have fun
 
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just remember to keep your priorities in order

we'll miss you bro
 
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Alright man, I hope you get everything straight. Remember these wise words by Judas Priest

"Don't give in...aim for a new tommorow"

The whole song is great, I'm sure you know it. It's "You've got another thing coming".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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