NorwegianDJ
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Those numbers on that pizza are surreal. I do want and I do doubt.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm going to make it. My story.
- Thread starter LearningSlowly
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
I think I actually got them too low. I believe it said 17g per serving (1 serving was 1/6 of a pizza) which would be 102g total.NorwegianDJ said:
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Sup guys. Missed my daily post yesterday, but I'm tired as hell after a busy day so I'll run through highlights. I have masturbated since last post.
Graduation is tomorrow. My uncle's in town for it. Tried to write a song today, only got the first phrase before we left for dinner. I'll keep working on it.
I probably won't be in town when my fake id gets delivered. Gotta figure out the right person to hold onto it for me.
I'll be on a cruise when my date with Alyssa was planned. Tomorrow I'll ask if she's free on Sunday. I'll also try to set up a date with Shannon this week. I need new girls.
Hoping there's a graduation party tomorrow.
Didn't eat enough today, probably around 40-60g protein. I'll do better tomorrow. Missed lifting yesterday but I made it up today. Watched a video that vastly improved my power clean technique. Up to 85 lbs on that, 90 bench, 120 deadlift. Gotta keep getting those numbers up.
Graduation is tomorrow. My uncle's in town for it. Tried to write a song today, only got the first phrase before we left for dinner. I'll keep working on it.
I probably won't be in town when my fake id gets delivered. Gotta figure out the right person to hold onto it for me.
I'll be on a cruise when my date with Alyssa was planned. Tomorrow I'll ask if she's free on Sunday. I'll also try to set up a date with Shannon this week. I need new girls.
Hoping there's a graduation party tomorrow.
Didn't eat enough today, probably around 40-60g protein. I'll do better tomorrow. Missed lifting yesterday but I made it up today. Watched a video that vastly improved my power clean technique. Up to 85 lbs on that, 90 bench, 120 deadlift. Gotta keep getting those numbers up.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Sup guys. It's been a minute so here's an update. I'm in Rome right now, no chance to game with my family around. Will be boarding a cruise tomorrow, should have options there. I'll update when I kiss close.
I've been keeping an eye on nutrition and exercise. Talk to y'all soon (hit me up on Facebook if you miss me)
I've been keeping an eye on nutrition and exercise. Talk to y'all soon (hit me up on Facebook if you miss me)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
First time getting free Internet and its on my way home. I'm ony phone so sorry for spelling mistakes or a less detailed post.
So I got a girl, but not the girl I wanted right away.
First night I went out with my sister and met everyone in the dance club. It was easy, I just said hi. The only group that came together was a big crew from Miami. They were friendly on that first night, and on the last might, but in general they wanted nothing to do withe and the social group that I created. I had a bit of a rivalry with their alpha, Danny. Here's why.
Met a girl on the first night. She was cute, maybe 7.5. I was flirting heavily, touching her ass, sitting on her, dancing with her and her mom and generally projecting interest. My biggest mistake was not kissing her on that first might. I can't stress this enough.
On the Second night she caught up with me and my sister and two Italians I had met. I knew it was on. She called me adorable, which is a word I only use for girls I want to screw. We were touching a lot.
Then Danny comes along later. I uses every body language trick I knew. I boxed him out of circles, led my girl along to obviously mark her as my territory but he still managed to isolate under my nose. They ended up by some elevators. I left so I wouldn't have to see it. I gave her the cold shoulder the next day and found out later that she had hooked up with him on the dance floor. Never got a chance to turn things around.
On to the next one. I had a group of friends by the third night that becameu group for the whole trip. Met a 6 through them. I had no other options (I opened a cute girl one day but she didn't come out to the club again. The guys she ended up friends with were much older, hotter, and just as social. I was friends with them too though).
Hooked up with this 6 one might, but she told me she had a boyfriend after all of it. We kept hooking up anyway for the whole trip. She's a really sweet girl. I'm the second guy she's had sex with, after she and her boyfriend lost their virginity to each other. Pretty sure I drunkenly tried anal with her last might. Had a great time with her overall.
So this post is obviously convoluted and gives no sense for the cruise as a whole. In general, I owned the dance floor, even of no one else was on it, talked to EVERYONE and had a great time. I've got a bottle of vodka in my suitcase for when I'm home and im excited to write about drinking it. I'll get back to posting regularly in a couple of days.
So I got a girl, but not the girl I wanted right away.
First night I went out with my sister and met everyone in the dance club. It was easy, I just said hi. The only group that came together was a big crew from Miami. They were friendly on that first night, and on the last might, but in general they wanted nothing to do withe and the social group that I created. I had a bit of a rivalry with their alpha, Danny. Here's why.
Met a girl on the first night. She was cute, maybe 7.5. I was flirting heavily, touching her ass, sitting on her, dancing with her and her mom and generally projecting interest. My biggest mistake was not kissing her on that first might. I can't stress this enough.
On the Second night she caught up with me and my sister and two Italians I had met. I knew it was on. She called me adorable, which is a word I only use for girls I want to screw. We were touching a lot.
Then Danny comes along later. I uses every body language trick I knew. I boxed him out of circles, led my girl along to obviously mark her as my territory but he still managed to isolate under my nose. They ended up by some elevators. I left so I wouldn't have to see it. I gave her the cold shoulder the next day and found out later that she had hooked up with him on the dance floor. Never got a chance to turn things around.
On to the next one. I had a group of friends by the third night that becameu group for the whole trip. Met a 6 through them. I had no other options (I opened a cute girl one day but she didn't come out to the club again. The guys she ended up friends with were much older, hotter, and just as social. I was friends with them too though).
Hooked up with this 6 one might, but she told me she had a boyfriend after all of it. We kept hooking up anyway for the whole trip. She's a really sweet girl. I'm the second guy she's had sex with, after she and her boyfriend lost their virginity to each other. Pretty sure I drunkenly tried anal with her last might. Had a great time with her overall.
So this post is obviously convoluted and gives no sense for the cruise as a whole. In general, I owned the dance floor, even of no one else was on it, talked to EVERYONE and had a great time. I've got a bottle of vodka in my suitcase for when I'm home and im excited to write about drinking it. I'll get back to posting regularly in a couple of days.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Looking back I know how to handle it.
I had been so threatened by Danny that I failed to recognize the other 2 high value guys in their group. I was treating him as my only accessible link, and was therefore giving him too much credit. I should have approached the other two (one of whom I only bothered to meet on the last night) and given them much more respect than I gave him, showing that I perceived him as a few rungs down on the social ladder. Then we he started to steal my girl, I would have flirted with his girls and gotten jealousy and social proof.
But I dunno, even that might not have worked. Closed groups are tough to break into.
I went out last night. It was supposed to be a party, ended up being 7 of us. Two girls were taken by the two other guys. There were 2 other female options for me, but I didn't have much opportunity for either of them. One open girl (HB7) came with a friend who went to hook up with my boy the whole time. I didn't kino escalate on her, there was barely any kino at the party so it would have been forced.
The other girl would be a 5 to BPH cause she's fat, but her ENORMOUS boobs and social presence take her up to a 7 in my mind. She was more drunk than everyone else and started to kino on me when two of our friends were away hooking up. It was clear it wouldn't go anywhere, but it was good DHV for that HB7, who is a year younger than us.
Maybe I'll try to hit that HB7 up, but probably not.
Just a chill night.
I had been so threatened by Danny that I failed to recognize the other 2 high value guys in their group. I was treating him as my only accessible link, and was therefore giving him too much credit. I should have approached the other two (one of whom I only bothered to meet on the last night) and given them much more respect than I gave him, showing that I perceived him as a few rungs down on the social ladder. Then we he started to steal my girl, I would have flirted with his girls and gotten jealousy and social proof.
But I dunno, even that might not have worked. Closed groups are tough to break into.
I went out last night. It was supposed to be a party, ended up being 7 of us. Two girls were taken by the two other guys. There were 2 other female options for me, but I didn't have much opportunity for either of them. One open girl (HB7) came with a friend who went to hook up with my boy the whole time. I didn't kino escalate on her, there was barely any kino at the party so it would have been forced.
The other girl would be a 5 to BPH cause she's fat, but her ENORMOUS boobs and social presence take her up to a 7 in my mind. She was more drunk than everyone else and started to kino on me when two of our friends were away hooking up. It was clear it wouldn't go anywhere, but it was good DHV for that HB7, who is a year younger than us.
Maybe I'll try to hit that HB7 up, but probably not.
Just a chill night.
apocolipto
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See if you can hit her up bro, no harm in trying.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Got head last night and had sex with the girl this morning. It was awful.
Worst sex of my life, and shes fairly ugly. I will never touch that girl again.
I need higher standards, and more girls in my life (if I had more girls, I would not have settled for this one).
Worst sex of my life, and shes fairly ugly. I will never touch that girl again.
I need higher standards, and more girls in my life (if I had more girls, I would not have settled for this one).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NorwegianDJ
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Jack Wealthy
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****in ginger.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Was just going HAM SQUAD in COD MW3. Started to get into a groove, my last 2 games were 24-10 then 30-8. I know yall dont care, but if you play on xbox live, my gamertag is Renegade Badger
I'm 2/10 on these approaches (Sort of. I'll write a full post detailing all of them. I expect to go over the number)
I'm 2/10 on these approaches (Sort of. I'll write a full post detailing all of them. I expect to go over the number)
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Really should revise my approaches to 1/10, one was too short to count. I'm showing signs of depression: sleeping til the afternoon, staying up late, my room is messy, I barely get out of the house, I play videogames and watch youtube too much, and I'm relying on weed for an activity.
What first took me out of depression and guided me to this site was a book on zen living (Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle) so Im going to renew that interest. My considerable youtube habit will be limited to videos on Buddhist teaching. I will cease masturbation and impose a strict bedtime. I will return to my interest in pottery and also renew my exercise habits. This will help give me the discipline to complete this bootcamp.
Today I'm going to clean my room and do laundry. Later today I will talk to my dad about either starting P90X or getting a membership to the gym down the street (weights in the basement aren't cutting it). I will go to sleep at 10:30.
Tomorrow at 8 am I will get up, take 30 minutes to get ready and watch a Buddhism video, then go down to the park next to my pottery studio. I will work on pottery when they aren't teaching classes in there, and the rest of the time I will walk the path around the park and talk to women. I'm in a rut and I need to be out of it.
What first took me out of depression and guided me to this site was a book on zen living (Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle) so Im going to renew that interest. My considerable youtube habit will be limited to videos on Buddhist teaching. I will cease masturbation and impose a strict bedtime. I will return to my interest in pottery and also renew my exercise habits. This will help give me the discipline to complete this bootcamp.
Today I'm going to clean my room and do laundry. Later today I will talk to my dad about either starting P90X or getting a membership to the gym down the street (weights in the basement aren't cutting it). I will go to sleep at 10:30.
Tomorrow at 8 am I will get up, take 30 minutes to get ready and watch a Buddhism video, then go down to the park next to my pottery studio. I will work on pottery when they aren't teaching classes in there, and the rest of the time I will walk the path around the park and talk to women. I'm in a rut and I need to be out of it.
Hey man, if you really stop masturbating it REALLY helps. It helped me a lot. Don't even think about taking a little peek at porn, or even touching your penis a bit. Don't even do it man.
About the Buddhism, this is fantastic. I'm a Buddhist myself and I love doing meditation. Power of Now is also a fantastic book.
Good luck man!
About the Buddhism, this is fantastic. I'm a Buddhist myself and I love doing meditation. Power of Now is also a fantastic book.
Good luck man!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
I barely accomplished anything of my goals. I've allowed this spiral to descend deeper than it should have. I've lost any semblance of momentum. I am again on Day 1 of no mb. I didn't leave the house today, but did chores and was more active. I need to work my cogs into moving again and make myself responsible for my own progress.
Tomorrow is it. A full day of pick-up and pottery. Hopefully I'll have stories to share next post.
Look up "KassemG" on youtube if you dont already know him. In his street interviews is his incredible cold approach skill and in his 'Going Deep' series he practices one on one with porn stars, and always makes a daring physical move. I'll find inspiration in this and in zen and hopefully do well for myself tomorrow.
Tomorrow is it. A full day of pick-up and pottery. Hopefully I'll have stories to share next post.
Look up "KassemG" on youtube if you dont already know him. In his street interviews is his incredible cold approach skill and in his 'Going Deep' series he practices one on one with porn stars, and always makes a daring physical move. I'll find inspiration in this and in zen and hopefully do well for myself tomorrow.
NorwegianDJ
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Work out and diet and avoid mbing. Start there with increasing meditation. Start in the morning.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Long story short, I went there ready to go with a great mindset. But no hot girls. Actually no high school girls at all. Middle-aged or older for the most part. Did pottery for a couple hours, then walked the park again. No targets. I'll have to try a new place tomorrow. Trying to be the little engine that could and get my motor running right now, momentum momentum momentum.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Barely achieved anything since last post. I'm in Israel now. Approached 2 girls in the NY airport, one around 30, the other 13. Met my hot 21 yr old cousin here. Don't expect to have many approach chances with the language barrier. A few days of no mb is doing me good though. Very sexual dreams. Gotta leave now, but I expect when I return home I'll be ready to jump back on the horse
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.