Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm going to fight the next person that makes fun of me in real life

Sousha

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You just need to ****ing RELAX. I used to be exactly like you. I'd get incredibly pissed off at the people who were "making fun of me." Then I looked around a little bit. EVERYONE DOES IT TO EVERYONE ELSE! It's just the way of things. Most of the time, it's just a joke. Laugh at it, or throw back another joke at the guy. You just need to relax and (gasp) enjoy it. Unless of course the other guy is actually just being an ass, well then just ****ing ignore him. DO NOT FIGHT HIM OVER SOMETHING LIKE THIS!

Also, trust me on this, people will start running away from you if you keep being so angry all the time. They will think you are insane. JUST RELAX
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Birdem

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You attract that to your own life. I doubt that you are going to fight the next person that makes fun of you. I can call you a p ussy right now and you can't do nothing about it. If you got laid you probably won't take things so serious and that's how the dj bible would help you. MY final thought is you are really a p ussy lol.
 

Nygard

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First of all, talk to a psycologist, you might be suffering from depression.

Get out of where you live, go and live in another city/country/continent or whatever if you're not.

Do whatever you want. Want to fight? go ahead and face the consecueces of your actions.
 

Furyguy

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Lift weights.

1) it'll improve your scrawny/lanky physique
2) it'll improve your self-confidence and sense of self-worth
3) when you finally find that fight you've been looking for, you'll win.

You said you're "working out," I hope you got your sh!t together and you know what the f*ck you're doing so you're not just wasting your time in there going through the motions. If you were doing it right I can guarantee you wouldn't be having these confidence issues.

You say you're nerdy looking? Get some contacts and shave your head. Problem solved. I bet your appearance right now doesn't reflect your "I'm not going to take this **** anymore" outlook that you present on these forums, does it? Fix that.

I don't think you're depressed or insane, I think you're just tired of the world sh!tting all over you. There are better ways to handle it than hitting some kid in the face. Stop looking for an easy out.
 

Rhoto

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Lifting weights is great, and I really encourage it, but I don't think it is as powerful to the psyche as martial arts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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comic_relief

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Rhoto said:
Lifting weights is great, and I really encourage it, but I don't think it is as powerful to the psyche as martial arts.
why not do both, I currently lift weights, bike between fifteen to twenty miles a day, and manage to still find time for western martial arts.

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comic_relief said:
why not do both, I currently lift weights, bike between fifteen to twenty miles a day, and manage to still find time for western martial arts.

comic_relief
Thats the idea. And as said elsewhere, conditioning is KING.
 
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