"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm Going to be on local dating show..help appreciated.

The College Guy

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I'm going to be on a local satellite tv game dating show as a contestant...I'm trying to do stuff out of my comfort zone...so thats' why i signed up to do it..IT's nothing major..but im hoping it'll be pretty fun experience..

anyhow..Any tips on how to answer questions..and how should i come off as?

how would you don juans answer these questions?

1. what would be the pefect date?

2. what will you do to impress me ? etc.

i'm not sure how "real" this show might be...but i wanna try to win lol...

so yeah..any tips, help, etc..would be appreciated
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ChrizZ

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The College Guy said:
1. what would be the pefect date?

One that leads to sex.

2. what will you do to impress me ? etc.
Absolutely nothing.
Ding Ding Ding!!!!

WE HAVE A WINNER!!!
 

Maxtro

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"What will you do to impress me?" It seems like it might be one of those shows where there is a group of guys going after one girl. She ends up making out with all the guys then she picks one who "wins" her. I don't like those type of shows but your reasons for doing it is good.

As for advice, sorry I don't have any.
 

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yeah.....there will be one girl....and i'll be up against two other guys...


she can't see our faces....etc...
 

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Here ya go, critique all ya want. Because it's what I do, I play the sarcasm card. I'll warn ya that there are some people that do not like it, but ya can't please them all. Obviously, your delivery has a lot to due with the reaction that you get.

1. The perfect date definitely has a lot of awkward silences and uncomfortable moments. I'd probably start with a 10 minute story about how I'm failing most of my classes, and then transition to stories involving ex-girlfriends. If I'm really feeling it, I'll throw in some politics and religion. At the end of the night, I'll fake like I'm going in for a kiss, but then give you a handshake. If you're lucky, I may even throw in a fist tap at the end.

2. I'll impress you by showing you how much I can drink. Screw taking shots--give me the bottle. Who cares that it's 2:00pm? It's the only way I can keep my grades how they are. Later in the evening, I'll defend your honor by picking a fight with anyone that approaches you when we're out. It's ok, all the cops know me already so I'm sure they'll realize it was the other guy's fault. They'll probably even give you a ride home, so we don't have to deal with cabs. It's win-win.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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