"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nobody

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Hey, how are you?
What soda do you recommend?
I have a friend's b-day this weekend, any ideas for gifts?
Comment on an item on her body...


How am I so far?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GaryUranga said:
if I were a girl Id be creeped out, but Im not a girl so I have no idea, I wouldnt personally go like that. But it could work for you.
How would ya go?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Personaly even as a guy if a girl said that i would be creeped out 'What soda do you recommend?' all i can say to you is good luck! It has to be more natural, less try hard.

Honestly, pretending you thought you recognised here would probably be better idea then any of this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nicenomore

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dont think .....just do it
social settings are dynamic...once the girl may be with her friends , at other times not....
go with the flow of situation , instead of finding an ideal one....


i would go for something like this:

Mindset : Completely enjoy myself

Hi, (situational opener) (commenting about music , food , etc)

Dont think what to say next. Listen to her, you will automatically get something to talk about

This is my personal suggestion. Post your FR for sure.
 

LegendBoy

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I reckon the second u start thinking your fukd. I just go in with the knowing of MANY TIMES that after I did not approach i REGRETED IT sooo much so that motivates me.
 

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Bollocks. Go with the soda openor, the idea is to "open", as in get the girl talking. If you follow it up, it won't be creepy.
 
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Where is this? In class (this is the HS forum after all)? If it is in class just make a comment about the teacher or class. The main thing, as WesCott said, is to get her talking.
 

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Just don't hesitate. The more you hesitate the more nervous you get. Good Luck!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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