Im Giving Up !

[ashman1]

Im sorry bros , i cant do this anymore . this PUA stuff is really
great and all but these girls arent worth the time or trouble ,
and i dont have the fight left in me to waist my time with
worthless women .

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

You can find amazing women out there . I dont know who hurt your feelings but its probably your fault . Everything depends on you : How people treat , how people look at you , how people talk at you .. Everything depends on you .

Keep studying pickup and apply it in field . Once you change your frame and become more confident , this sh1t is going to be fun for you .
If you're the type of men that gives up , you will never have what you want in your life . Your decision: Give up or fight and get what you want .

Hard work always pays .

 

[Dstructor]

That's cool man.
What do you wanna do now ?

 

[oakraiderz2]

A PUA and DJ arent the samething, which you obviously dont understand. Clearly you could improve as a person seeing as how youre "quitting" and all. Since you dont like girls anymore perhaps you could spend your time learning how to spell waste and other elementry school words.

 

[Rex Man]

If women are too much work, it is your own doing ashman. Instead of trying to sow the seeds of pity, perhaps your forum efforts would be better spent learning ways to improve your efficiency. How's your success with women currently?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

i dont have the fight left in me to waist my time with
worthless women.

There aren't always worthless women in the world. If ya quit now u probably won't find the one for u who really isn't worthless.

 

[PectoralisMajor]

good skills - giving up is the way forward alright.

that how all successful people made a name for themselves, and how humans evolve. we give up.

jeeeeeeeeeesh - you suck long time:kick:

 

[Solomon]

I can relate to the post
sometimes you put in all this "field" time in and you don't see no improvement
I would lie to the OP and say I havent felt like this,
I would lie to you guys and say I still don't feel like this at times.
But then I realize that I deserve the best, I deserve to be happy, I deserve whats great, and then I realize that nothing ever has been handed to me, and that I'm a born figther, and then i keep pushing, maybe today, maybe tommrow only God knows....

 

[ashman1]

please understand that it's not that i dont have success with women
no its not that and it s not that the information i get from here dosent
work , beacuse it does . it 's just that they're insane .

ive spent all of my time building myself into someone who has a life
and is interesting , its like no one appreciates it but me , and im tired of being ignored by women .

im not really quitting , im just ranting .

 

[Dstructor]

I think the proper wording would be "Put too much effort and trouble and they don't give a ****" instead of "i'm the only one that appreciates it"
Coz appreciation for something means knowing it's value and why would you need someone else to tell you the value of your watch if you already know ?

My advice ? let go, leave all that stuff you did strictly for women and go out...

Just get out now, cruise around with your car or on foot and if you see something, ANYTHING in the shops or displays that you come across or even people; Just something to do that would make you feel very good (Nice shirt, book a test-drive for a Harley, Help a lady cross the street)
This is from Sean Messenger's Blog. It's called stop looking for a woman

Read it, You might like it

This weekend your challenge is very simple.

You are to go out of your house one night. Any night. But pick a night where you have few, if any, responsibilites to others the next day.

You can choose where you want to go, but make damn sure it's a place YOU want to go. If your "wingman" wants to go to some stick-in-the-ass club and it's not the kind of place that gets your **** hard, don't go. Tell him to go screw, and instead find something you like.

Go to a rock club. Catch a play in the park. Hit up a sports bar. Play WoW at an internet cafe. Whatever. Just find something YOU like, and don't judge yourself for it.

And I'll tell you a secret: you're not going out with the objective of finding a girl.

You are going out to find a MAN.

That man is you.

When you go out, stay out wherever you are as long as you can. Stay until they kick you out, and when they try to kick you out, chat 'em up and stay longer. Finally, when the lights are off, the chairs are stacked on tables and the doors are locked, head out into the streets...

AND STAY OUT.

All night, baby.

Call it a Walkabout. Call it a Vision Quest. Call it a Spirit Journey, or just call it being homeless for a night. Wherever you are, there are places safe enough for you to wander in the early morning hours. Find it. Find the places you like during the daytime and absorb them at night. I love to go to parks at night and stare deep into the moonlight fractured by the limbs and leaves of trees.

I love to walk city streets when they are quiet and the only people out are the Chinese grocers and loading truck workers setting up the next day's produce.

I love to look at the lights and the streets and hear the hum of garbage trucks rolling down the street.

I love to go out on the water, any water, and watch lights and moon and stars blink on the rippling surface.

Walking and looking deep into the night will give you a chance to walk and look deep into yourself. Make it a journey and look for things you've never seen before.

Breathe all through your walk. Feel your steps. Listen to the hum around you. Let your skin register the cool night air and your eyes adjust to the darkness, pupils enlarging to take in as much light, greedily, as possible.

You can time it, but you cannot return home until you see one thing.


The Flashlight of God.

You may know what I mean. If you've ever been to Vegas, or Greece, or Miami, or any place where bars never seem to close, you know that feeling when you walk out of a bar or club, the one you entered under the cover of night, into the bright sun, and felt this feeling like your father just barged in your room and found you pleasuring yourself to a random photo of a random girl in a random state of nudity.

Busted. God sees you. He sees you everywhere. And now he sees you just daring to stay out and break all the rules you've absorbed your whole life.

It sounds like a small thing, eh? What's the big deal about staying up all night? Think about it. Feel back into memory. Remember the first time you pushed through the night? Maybe it was a sleepover where you just kept watching movies with a friend. Maybe it was summer camp and telling ghost stories. Maybe it was the night before a final that you knew you weren't prepared for, so you kept downing Red Bull and holding eyelids open with your fingers to keep reading.

There's something different about being up all night. It's a break with convention. It's a subtle way of telling all the forces that shaped you that YOU make your own decisions. It's a chance to see the world as it really is, slower, calmer, more real.

It's a chance to see YOURSELF slower, calmer, more real.

So get out this weekend and wander. Drunk or sober. iPod or quiet. Carry a camera and remember what you see. Bring a pad of paper and pen and write what you find.

Push it. The rules no longer apply to you. And the sooner you start seeing the ridiculous nature of the rules you don't even think about, the sooner the big ones that live deep inside you start to get silly and small.

And then disappear.

Stay out until you find what is in.



Love,

Sean


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[Warrior74]

Give up then. Now is the time to focus on yourself, your spirit your goals and your dreams. Meet women and enjoy them. Don't worry about picking them up. if it happens it happens. make something else the focus of your life.

If you do decide to date women, qualify them now. You know you are worth something, are they? If they are not, move on. Remember, your a king, and there are very few women in the world who are worthy to be queens, but there are many who can warm a kings bed for the night.