Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm giving away 100 free copies of my book

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With the growing interest between the relationship of sales and gaming women in this forum, I have decided to donate 100 free copies of my book, Supersize Your Sex Life.

This book is conversion of sales and marketing strategies, and how they relate to gaming.

I feel this is an important new dynamic for dedicated DJ's to consider, which is why I wrote the book. I have had tremendous success with this system, which I developed through years of working in sales and marketing.

To receive a free copy as a PDF EBook, send your email address to my message box.

In return for your free copy I ask only the following.

1. Read it with a sense of humor. I am a stand-up comedian, so I could not resist making this book funny. Learning to be a DJ takes serious study in the beginning, but ultimately DJing should be a very lighthearted lifestyle. All systems, including my own should be finally ingrained and then forgotten. After all, we are not systematic robots adhering to only one approach or method.

2. Please take a moment to go to my site where you can read a brief outline of the book, as well as the first 50 or so pages in the FREE SAMPLES link. I would like to give the book to DJ's with a sincere interest in this field.

3. If you appreciate the book, and you also feel this topic needs further attention, please post about it with your incites, so we can continue to share this knowledge. And if you feel this approach is not beneficial to the DJ arsenal, post why you feel this way.

4. Please do not email with questions or input, unless you feel it is absolutely necessary. This book has been professionally edited, and I have had sufficient feedback throughout the creating of this book.

5. Enjoy, have a laugh, and the next girl you approach a girl, tell her about the system, make her laugh, and ask her to guess what step you have her on. She'll love it.

Happy Sales

Dong Fu A.K.A. Rod Johnson
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cyp6 said:
sounds cool how do we get a copy?
Just send me a private message to my DJ inbox with your email - I will send it as a PDF
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are already alot of people requesting the book. I'm going to send the book out once per day. I'll send it out to you guys tonight.

aloha
 

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Update

There has been a lot more interest in the book than I planned. I want to revise the 100 copies offer and keep it open to everyone who is interested.

This is not a scam or a marketing attempt - The book is currently being reviewed by a publishing house, and will likely be printed.

I am offering it to this community out of mutual respect, and in hopes of bringing some lighthearted energy to this forum.

Many of you forgot to send me your email address with your request.

For further inquiry into the origins of this system I recommend reading Retail Selling Made Easy.

If any of you guys really enjoy the book, and would like to leave a donation on the site, I promise I wont use it to buy a girl flowers.:up:

Peace.
 

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Thanks, I'll read it over the next week or two and give you a review. Would you like testimonials as well from the members here as well?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KarmaSutra said:
Overall it has a good look. I'll delve deeper into it later tonight and give you my synopsis.
Mahalo

Feel free to be very critical. I know there will always be something someone sees differently.
 

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comic_relief said:
Thanks, I'll read it over the next week or two and give you a review. Would you like testimonials as well from the members here as well?

comic_relief

Yeah, testimonials would be cool. There are a lot deep thinking DJ's around here, and I would definitely like to hear how others perceive this approach. Every book like this has some angle that was skipped over or forgotten, and is always a work in progress.
 

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Hey, where's the book? You sent me a PM without any info on how to get it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gangster Of Love said:
Hey, where's the book? You sent me a PM without any info on how to get it.
I emailed it to your address. It should have an attachment file called supersiz your sex life.

Let me know if you didn't get it and i'll re-send it.
 

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I emailed it to your address. It should have an attachment file called supersiz your sex life.

Let me know if you didn't get it and i'll re-send it.
Can you e-mail one to me too? I PM'ed you already but not sure if you didn't notice. My e-mail is "[email protected]"
 

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Voodoo intermission

seth03 said:
Can you e-mail one to me too? I PM'ed you already but not sure if you didn't notice. My e-mail is "[email protected]"
No problem - check your email

To everyone else:

I'll send out one more round later today, then I'll be gone till tues afternoon.

I've been checking out this Santeria Priestess. Crazy freak in bed. SHe starts channeling spirits and convulsing and speaking in Toungs, except it's probably nasty stuff in that language.:confused:

This is an interesting new development for me, and she invited me to one of her voodoo rituals. Maybe i'll round up some more freaky customers. As long as they dont drink blood or some ****, i'll hang in there for a minute.:eek: :eek: :confused: :confused:

I'll keep you guys posted.
 

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Fancy sending one to the UK ?? We need it here too...........
 

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Night Owl said:
Fancy sending one to the UK ?? We need it here too...........
No problem - I have a lot of bros in the UK and my cousin works there in advertising - so the book is already floating around

Just send your email to my private message box and i'll email you a pdf
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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