"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm getting contradictory statements from this girl.

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Hi,

So it's been 2 months I've been with this girl I like. She had been with a guy for around 2 years previously. So one fine day we were talking about our exes for a short time and I just happened to ask that did you guys have sex? She said No, only kinda oral. Fast forward a few days back we were alone at her house and making out. She reached for my *package* down there and asked me "How do I hold this?". I was very surprised considering she said she knows everything. Also when I took a bath and came out she wanted to see "it". Upon looking she said "OMG! Looks like we'll have to adopt in the future." I just smiled and said thanks for the compliment.

What does this mean? I'm confused?

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Also... in a completely different scenario. I said I was a little jealous of her that she attracts a lot of guys attention.(Can't help it though, our college has a higher number of male students by default). So I said it's alright I'll overcome. She instantaneously said, 'Ohh, so that is the case? Then I'll make you more jealous'. I was like dafuq!!

How do I respond to this game?

Thanks in advance.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She asked u how to hold your ****, and you DIDN'T get any head or nothing?... smh
 
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Lol. Ummmm how do I say this...... She's a li'l slow.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Espi said:
Best to not even understand.

Focus on YOUR passions, your desires. Nothing else really matters. Understanding her will not make anything better.
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Your right! It's not even necessary. Women were coming after me stronger when I heard what they were saying at a 50-60% basis. Now as a more responsible, punctual older man who hears about 95%, can re-write the lists of their demands, remember word for word, base level attraction is actually much lower!

Do what drives your passions.
 
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She is flirting with you and wants to f uck. Stop messing around and do it.
 
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Espi said:
Best to not even understand.

Focus in YOUR passions, your desires. Nothing else really matters. Understanding her will not make anything better.
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I never fully bought into this. You cannot just say "I'm go into focus on my passions and not women". You actually need to set a goal or multiple and be 100% focused on reaching your goals. If you aren't fully invested in your goals, the whole "women will chase. Me because I'm aloof and focusing on myself" bit does Not work. Plus, if you do it for that reason alone, you become outcome dependent.

You'll know when you make the transition too. Women will notice you more, but once again you're focused on your goals so you won't care if they notice youor not. You will become outcome independent and talking to the opposite sex becomes as easy as it should be. Game doesn't matter because you have no time for games, you become short and direct, to the point.

That's what happens when you invest 101% in yourself.
 
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napster said:
Hi,

So it's been 2 months I've been with this girl I like. She had been with a guy for around 2 years previously. So one fine day we were talking about our exes for a short time and I just happened to ask that did you guys have sex? She said No, only kinda oral.
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She was dating a hot hockey player for 24 months in a row, was with him all week, every weekend, every national holiday, and all international holidays, and they only 'kinda' had oral sex? Come on bro, she is laughing at you for asking such a dumb question and is laughing at you for accepting such a dumb answer.

Fast forward a few days back we were alone at her house and making out. She reached for my *package* down there and asked me "How do I hold this?". I was very surprised considering she said she knows everything. Also when I took a bath and came out she wanted to see "it". Upon looking she said "OMG! Looks like we'll have to adopt in the future." I just smiled and said thanks for the compliment.

What does this mean? I'm confused?
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Got to be a joke thread.
 
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