im getting cinfused with how to get a gf!

[Georgey]

i mean how many times do u have to go out with her?
how well should u know her?
and how do u ask her to be ur gf? do u just go for the kiss or what and how?
im really getting confused... it's like i've never had a gf before.
btw, a girl told me that she got like 20 gf requests this summer. and i asked how well did u know them before they asked, she said that most of them barely talked to her and would only pass by and say hi... and most of those guys asked a friend of that girl to tell her that he's asking if she can be his gf.(im guessing this is AFC:kick: ).

 

[Alle_Gory]

1. Lean to spell. It makes reading your posts easy.
2. They usually ask you to be their BF. Its very subtle, so pay attention to how they act when they say this. Usually its something like "what do I mean to you", "what are we", "what if...".
3. Have fun with them. If its supposed to work out, it will. Things have a way of flowing. Have fun, don't take yourself or her too seriously. And don't be disrespected.


Also, why do you want this girl to be your GF?

I think I know why: You want to posses her. Nail her down. You're afraid of getting another chick, for whatever low-self esteem related problem you have.

Not going to work buddy.

Its like water. The harder you squeeze, the less you're holding.



I hope most of this will get past the language barrier.

 

[Georgey]

i didnt understand number 1 and the when u said u know why.. ummm no i dont have this problem, i talk to many girls at a time but im not getting a gf.
and uhh.. im not really asking any girl for it, n thats why i was wondering if i have to.
im losing motivation

 

[Ken785]

1. Lean to spell. It makes reading your posts easy.

Something very hypocritical about that.