IM games..specially approaching.anyhelp

[kidman]

Now when I get a hot girl's msn email and add her to my list and she shows up she first asks me who am I and how did i get her email....these 2 questions do ruin everything I want to get into with her...what do you think I should say and when i pass these 2 questions should i start talking casually with her or what?and how much should i chat with her.NBlz dnt tell me real world hitting is better(i know) but there are some situations that IM is the only solution so plz answer the questions and we can later discuss the real world thing LOL.Thanks in advance

 

[EquityPrivate]

Originally posted by kidman
Now when I get a hot girl's msn email and add her to my list and she shows up she first asks me who am I and how did i get her email....these 2 questions do ruin everything I want to get into with her...what do you think I should say and when i pass these 2 questions should i start talking casually with her or what?and how much should i chat with her.NBlz dnt tell me real world hitting is better(i know) but there are some situations that IM is the only solution so plz answer the questions and we can later discuss the real world thing LOL.Thanks in advance

Where did you get the MSN address from?

If you know her in person the answer is:

You: "It's kidman. We met, at the Seniors' Celebrity Dogfight. I bought you an Absinthe ****tail."

If she doesn't remember you, or claims not to.

You: "Oh, sorry. I have the wrong address obviously."

Clearly you didn't make enough of an impression or she is playing games. NEXT.

Otherwise:

Her: "Oh yes, I remember you."
You: "You always space out on guys you meet like that?"
*short pause*
You: "*wink* *smile*"

You can be ****y-funny in IM too. It's all about the pause.

 

[DinoCassanova]

To me, if she says something like that, who are you and how did you get my email, she's acting b!tchy and you should call her on that. Act falsely offended. I would just say, something like, If you give your IM address out to THAT many guys that you can't even remember who I am (stress the I ) , then forget it. And just stop. Don't IM her again. She should IM you back and be like, Sorry , I just forgot, or something. Then you can take it from there, w/ just casual small talk. And if she asks you who you are again, you can just be like, Oh my god, you seriously don't remember me??? Or something like that. You know, just play if off, wing it.

That having been said, and I know you weren't interested in this right now, but I would try to get a phone # asap from any girl you're interested in. IM'ing, AND text msg'ing are TERRIBLE ways to try to communicate w/someone you're interested in . But if it's all you got for right now, you play the cards you have. Good luck.

~Dino~

 

[kidman]

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Im talking about a girl I havent met or talked to before guys...how I got her email isnt a prob.thanks