"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im fed up with the **** they say

NeedToImprove

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i just dont have patience for things like:

- men are all the same

- men are pigs

- i love you, *****es who fall in love in days or weeks and dont even know what love means

- *****es who try to put me in the friends zone, like saying they have lots of friends which they see as brothers

- *****es who go too fast too soon and call you dear, hunny days after meeting you the first time

- im fed up with their complaints on how their ex boyfriends suck

- i cant stand a girl telling me she wants to leave her boyfriend for someone else (even if it is for me ) and doesnt have the balls of telling him what she pretends to do


sometimes i just want those ****s to go **** themselves, where are the real women i wonder
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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