I'm epicly ****blocked...

[Pdizzzzzzle]

I hang out with a solid group of five-six guys a lot. Whenver we hang out it always seems like these 7-10 girls are always with us. They're at the same parties we're at, and whenever we just hang at eachother's houses/the movies/ etc there's always a few there. Some of these girls are hot, other's aren't.

So anyway, a new girl (girl A) has been part of the group lately and we just clicked right away. I got a lot of c&f in a few days ago and last night we really hit it off at a party. However, things kinda start to suck at this point. Last night after the party my friend texted me saying " You know so and so has a boyfriend, right?" I replied no, to which he replied that they're not serious or anything.

So besides her boyfriend, I am also majorly ****blocked by one of the other girls. She has extreme oneitis for me, got my number from someone else and texts me all the time. In all my replies to her texts I try to end the convo, but she keeps bringing up random stuff. She made a big scene about a week ago on how her dad has cancer and how she doesn't want any sympathy for it (meanwhile I'm thinking if she doesn't want sympathy why is she making a scene?) And now its like if I go for girl A, I will look like a total douche. I'll be "that guy" who screwed girl B over during one of the worst parts of her life.

I'm thinking of just cutting out girl A and looking for girls in other circles. At that point it would be easier because I could just tell girl B I'm with someone else, and it doesn't have to be someone that she regularly sees.I'm just pissed because I really like girl A and we hang out at a lot of the same events so it would have been really convenient.

What do you guys think ?

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

i dont think u should give up like tht....once a girl told me tht her parents would beat her up everyday.....guess wat she just wanted attention

 

[snowdog]

I say do whatever you want, man. You're not an as*h*le if you don't hook up with a girl you don't like.

Follow your d*ck and don't feel guilty about it.

 

[eaglez1177]

I hang out with a solid group of five-six guys a lot. Whenver we hang out it always seems like these 7-10 girls are always with us. They're at the same parties we're at, and whenever we just hang at eachother's houses/the movies/ etc there's always a few there. Some of these girls are hot, other's aren't.

So anyway, a new girl (girl A) has been part of the group lately and we just clicked right away. I got a lot of c&f in a few days ago and last night we really hit it off at a party. However, things kinda start to suck at this point. Last night after the party my friend texted me saying " You know so and so has a boyfriend, right?" I replied no, to which he replied that they're not serious or anything.

So besides her boyfriend, I am also majorly ****blocked by one of the other girls. She has extreme oneitis for me, got my number from someone else and texts me all the time. In all my replies to her texts I try to end the convo, but she keeps bringing up random stuff. She made a big scene about a week ago on how her dad has cancer and how she doesn't want any sympathy for it (meanwhile I'm thinking if she doesn't want sympathy why is she making a scene?) And now its like if I go for girl A, I will look like a total douche. I'll be "that guy" who screwed girl B over during one of the worst parts of her life.

I'm thinking of just cutting out girl A and looking for girls in other circles. At that point it would be easier because I could just tell girl B I'm with someone else, and it doesn't have to be someone that she regularly sees.I'm just pissed because I really like girl A and we hang out at a lot of the same events so it would have been really convenient.

What do you guys think ?

So basically what you're saying is this: Your going to give up on a chick who you can easily get with because some fvcking annnoying attention-wh*re has a one-itis for you and you don't wanna be "that guy" that "screwed her over" during one of the "worst parts" of her life.

THIS IS FVCKING PATHETIC. Listen to yourself man! Are you fvcking serious!?! You're going to let some fvcking attention ***** ruin your shot with a girl you like? Similar to what I was saying in BongDuy's thread, no matter how cruel, immoral, sad, or stupid it may seem, girl's will SAY AND DO ANYTHING to feed their emotions.

Clearly, this girl is using the "my dad has cancer" talk to get sympathy and attention from you and other people. Now to me, and most guys who are somewhat logical, that is just totally wrong and cruel to do. I mean IF the guy really does have fvcking cancer, the last thing his daughter should be doing is going around looking for sympathy and attention, when she should really STOP THINKING ABOUT HER MOTHERFVCKING SELF AND SUPPORT HER FATHER WHO IS GOING TO DIE SOON.

God I fvcking hate when girls pull sh*t like this.

Honestly man, WHO GIVES A FVCK IF PEOPLE LABEL YOU AS "THAT GUY"; you shouldn't give a sh*t about what others think of you and you should just follow you're d*ck. Get with this girl and fvck her, even if it means getting sexual right in front of Girl B. You should not give a fvck about anything girl B says, thinks, or does. DO WHAT YOU WANT!

 

[Pdizzzzzzle]

So basically what you're saying is this: Your going to give up on a chick who you can easily get with because some fvcking annnoying attention-wh*re has a one-itis for you and you don't wanna be "that guy" that "screwed her over" during one of the "worst parts" of her life.

THIS IS FVCKING PATHETIC. Listen to yourself man! Are you fvcking serious!?! You're going to let some fvcking attention ***** ruin your shot with a girl you like? Similar to what I was saying in BongDuy's thread, no matter how cruel, immoral, sad, or stupid it may seem, girl's will SAY AND DO ANYTHING to feed their emotions.

Clearly, this girl is using the "my dad has cancer" talk to get sympathy and attention from you and other people. Now to me, and most guys who are somewhat logical, that is just totally wrong and cruel to do. I mean IF the guy really does have fvcking cancer, the last thing his daughter should be doing is going around looking for sympathy and attention, when she should really STOP THINKING ABOUT HER MOTHERFVCKING SELF AND SUPPORT HER FATHER WHO IS GOING TO DIE SOON.

God I fvcking hate when girls pull sh*t like this.

Honestly man, WHO GIVES A FVCK IF PEOPLE LABEL YOU AS "THAT GUY"; you shouldn't give a sh*t about what others think of you and you should just follow you're d*ck. Get with this girl and fvck her, even if it means getting sexual right in front of Girl B. You should not give a fvck about anything girl B says, thinks, or does. DO WHAT YOU WANT!

Great reply. Thanks for the help, its good to get advice from people like you.