"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im drunk....

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And i wanna text this girl and tell her i know why!

I know why she wouldnt let us get together!

She has a non serious bf, that she met and as soon as she did, she told me me and her shouldnt happen as she didnt want a serious relationship because her last one broke her heart and this year was a big year with loads of big exams and stuff!

Ive worked out the guy shes seeing now means nothing and shes using for just sex, shes basically told me this a couple of times, she admitted we liked each other and we got on so well!

I know why! You might say your making excuses blah blah, but i really believe this is the reason!

I dont care! I wanna do it! I know i shouldnt! i know i should wait till im sober and then tell her or i know i should just say "Look untill your ready, we should cut contact, when your ready let me know! Coz i know you know how amazing we would be together! Untill then take care!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Contrary to popular belief, I see being drunk as a great opportunity to say whatever you want. Woman know you're not in a clear frame of mind and whatever you say doesn't really mean all that much because you're drunk. So, if you were to say something really heavy about your interest in her, then the next day, or week act like you don't even remember it. It confuses the **** out of chicks.
 

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I just sent her a text saying

"I have cracked it"

**** knows why! Drunkness has taken over! See where it leads in the morning wont we!
 

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Drunkness has taken over
are u drunk at the moment?

cos if you are, you have pretty good typing skills for a drunk guy. If I was drunk and I were to jump on the net, I would probably get stuck at the porn sites.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOL look at my sig this has to be the best advice ever given on sosuave ever in its history!
 

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Originally posted by Zombie
Contrary to popular belief, I see being drunk as a great opportunity to say whatever you want. Woman know you're not in a clear frame of mind and whatever you say doesn't really mean all that much because you're drunk. So, if you were to say something really heavy about your interest in her, then the next day, or week act like you don't even remember it. It confuses the **** out of chicks.
Nope. Revealing your interest even in an intoxicated state will hurt your game. She will think that what you said when you were drunk is actually the way you feel, but are "afraid" to tell her sober. That's what girls think. So, not only have you hurt your chances by revealing your interest, she also thinks you're a ***** who needs alcohol to show his emotions. Chick-logic.

You can get away with alot of things because you were drunk, but the fact of the matter is that alcohol makes us AFC's again. People go back to old habits and reveal all their secrets, feelings and thoughts. It kills the mystery. Excessive drinking is the DJ's worst enemy. It takes most back to square one.
 

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Well yeh im a pretty good drunk typist!

I woke up this morning, nice and early for a football match and while i was playing this gal obviously turned her phone on and got the message and replied saying "Cracked what may i ask?"

Well i havent replied for about 6 hours, im gonna do so in a minute just saying

"Who knows, i dont even remember sending ya a message last night"

Thank god i didnt say anything stupid "Ive cracked it" isnt exactly damaging is it lol!

Just makes me look kinda random!
 

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Well i text her saying that i was way to drunk and dont remember sending the message!

she replied saying "Lol, well if you have any flash backs, let me know, im intrigued!"

any ideas where i can go from here, my instincts are just saying leave it, dont reply and dont bring it back up!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What makes u say that?

Your probably right tho, i do have major oneitis here!
 
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